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(2025-11-19 12:57:59)
Mr.H.wasa63-year-oldstrokepatientinarehabilitationhospital.Although63isayoungageforstroke,itisunexceptionalforaheavysmokerover4decades.
ThestrokewasontherightsideofMr.H’sbrain,sohehaddifficultymovinghisleftlegandleftarm,andevenhisfaceandmouthwereaffectedbythestroke.Hissituationissevere,butIhaveseenworse.WhenIfirstmethim,hecouldgetupandwalkwithacaneandhelpfromasinglephysicaltherapist.Hisar...[阅读全文]
(2024-02-02 12:29:26)
ImetMr.L.multipletimeswhenhewasanin-housepatientinarehabilitationhospitalandlaterinhisoutpatienttherapysections.Heneededtheserehabilitationsectionstorecoverafteraseverestroke.Havinganextremelyhardtimecopingwiththesuddendeclineofhishealthafterhisstroke,hewasfrequentlyangry.Asamaninhisearly50s,Mr.L.hasafinefigureandimpressivebigeyes.AlthoughIcouldnotsaythatMr.L.isremarkablygoodlooking,Iwouldcallhimv...[阅读全文]
(2023-09-13 11:06:59)
ImetMr.K.inthesummerof2022.BeforeImethim,InoticedthespellingofhisnamewasdifferentfromthecommonspellingofmainlandChina,soIthoughthewasfromHongKongorTaiwan.ButlaterIfoundthathewasindeedfrommainlandChina,soIthoughtthestaffinthehospitalmisspelledhisname.However,itturnedouthechangedthespellinghimselfafterhewenttotheUSA.Mr.K.wasinhislate60sorearly70s.Hehasamodestfigure,andarelativelybigheadwithsomespars...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-31 13:47:59)
MissDwasmiserableallherlife.Shedevelopedepilepsywhenshewasfive,thenshehadanaccidentaround12,whichsignificantlyimpactedherleftside.Asaresult,shelumpedandherleftarmwasslightlytwisted,andshecannotcompletelyextendherleftarm.Althoughherepilepsyonlycausedmildepisodes,itwasneverfullycontrolled,andsheusuallyhadanepisodeeverytwoweeks.Asadisabledchild,sheonlyfinishedelementaryschoolinChina.
Sheha...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-28 09:13:30)
Atthefirsttime,ImetMs.W,Icouldseeshewasverysick.Apetite,oldlady,sittinginawheelchair,shewaswrappedinlayersofclothingandapairofsuperheavygloves,andhadanurinarybagattachedtoher.Shewasaccompaniedbyhersister.Whenthenursecheckedhervitalsign,sheneededhersister’shelptoremoveherclothingtohaveherbloodpressuretaken.Whenthefingeroximeterdidnotgetherbloodoxygenlevel,hersistersuggestedthatitcouldbeca...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-27 13:04:12)
TheinmatewasaChinesemaleinhis50schargedwithattemptedmurder.Althoughthispersonhasbeeninjailfor10months,hestillhasnotgonetocourtyet.Therefore,hehasnotbeensentenced.Hislawyersuspectedthatthematehasmentalillness,andrequestedamentalevaluationforhimbyapsychologist.Hewasofmediumheightandweight,andlookedyoungerthanhisrealage.Hegrewupinanabusivefamily.Hisfather,asubmissivepersoninthecommunity,treatedhisfam...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-24 16:36:03)
Ionlymetthispatientonceinavideocall.Butthesituationwassodismal,IwouldliketotalkaboutiteventhoughIonlyhadverylimitedinformation.Thepatientwasa46-year-oldwoman.Shehadtwofailedmarriages,whichlefthertwokids,one22-year-olddaughterandone12-year-oldson,andherdaughterwaswithherinthisvideocall.Shemighthaveapart-timejob,butIwasnotclearabouthowshemadealivingforherandherfamily.Sheclaimedthattherewasacertainma...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-24 12:21:21)
ThepatientIhadinthisonlinegrouptherapyisMr.L.Hewasinhis50s,andalmostdidnotspeakanyEnglishandhadnoknowledgeabouttheinternet.Therefore,Iguessedthathemusthaveonlylimitededucation.Mr.LwasacookinaChineserestaurant,andhadadrinkingproblemwhichheneverreallyadmitted.HelivedalongwithhiswifeinaVirginaCitynearDC.Becauseofhisdrinkingproblem,hiswifehadseveralseverefightswithhim,duringwhichhebeatedhiswife,andhis...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-14 16:58:50)
WhenIfirstmetthispatient,shewasabout14yearsold,andalwayscametotheclinicwithhermother.Isawthemfromtimetotimeformorethan1year,andthegirlnoticeablygrewduringthistime.Hermotherisanattractivewoman,andlookedtooyoungtohavesuchabiggirl.Theirclothingwasalwaysstylish,especiallythemother.Shealwayshadnicecoloredfingernails,neatlytrimmedeyebrowsandbeautifullyhighlightedshorthair.Ithoughtshewasprettierthanherda...[阅读全文]
(2023-07-13 16:34:32)
IfirstmetMr.GinDecember2021intheoutpatientpartofahospitalwherehewasseeingphysicaltherapists.Becausethishospitalismorethan50minutesdrivingfrommyhome,Iusuallywasreluctanttogothere.ButIbecamesympathetictoMr.G’ssituation,andacceptedmanyassignmentsthereinordertohelphimalittle.Mr.Gwasaskinnymiddle-agedman,andalwaysaccompaniedbyhiswife.Althoughitlookedlikehewalkedandtalkedfineatfirst,Isoonnoticedth...[阅读全文]
