"Happinesswithoutsecurityisadangerousillusion."
Russel一家俊男美女,爸爸温暖妈妈有决断。
Russel小姐从楼上下来,父亲和全部仆人都热烈欢呼雀跃,热切的看着她。她确实是publicfigure。她看着大家,甜蜜的有一点羞涩的笑着,也以笑容回应了大家。真的被感动了
她的父亲虽然没有完全赞成这桩婚事,但是却做到了对妻子的尊重。在两个场景中,给我深刻的印象
1)订[
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InOctober1971,PresidentNixonnominatedWilliamRehnquisttofillavacancyontheU.S.SupremeCourt.RehnquistandSandraDayO’ConnorhadbrieflydatedwhiletheywerebothstudentsatStanfordLawSchool.Whenhisnominationfacedopposition,SandrausedherpoliticalsavvyandconnectionsfromtheArizonaSenatetohelpdefendhim.ShespecificallyworkedtorebutallegationsthatRehnquisthadharassedBlackandHispanicvotersatapollingplace&mdash...[
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InOctober1971,PresidentNixonnominatedWilliamRehnquisttofillavacancyontheU.S.SupremeCourt.RehnquistandSandraDayO’ConnorhadbrieflydatedwhiletheywerebothstudentsatStanfordLawSchool.Whenhisnominationfacedopposition,SandrausedherpoliticalsavvyandconnectionsfromtheArizonaSenatetohelpdefendhim.ShespecificallyworkedtorebutallegationsthatRehnquisthadharassedBlackandHispanicvotersatapollingplace&mdash...[
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“Essays—FirstSeries”byRalphWaldoEmerson,publishedin1841,isafoundationalworkofAmericanTranscendentalistthought.Thevolumeconsistsof12essaysthatexploreindividualism,self-reliance,nature,thehumanspirit,andtheroleofintellectandmorality.ListofEssaysinFirstSeries: History
Explorestheideathatallhistoryisultimatelyautobiographical—thatindividualsprojectthemselvesintothehistorica...[
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最喜爱的剧之一,追到第三集,意犹未尽。最喜欢Russell家的戏。Russell家女儿只有17岁,我想她的妈妈是对的。她的聪明才智和家财万贯值得她去引领和做更有影响力的角色,而不是仓促追逐自认的爱情。 Russell家新赌注
Bertha(凯莉·库恩饰)举家北上冲刺贵族社会与英国贵族联姻(Gladys与公爵[
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情绪健康(EmotionalHealth)是指一个人感知、表达、理解和调节自己情绪的能力,以及在人际关系中以健康、积极、稳定的方式与他人互动的能力。情绪健康的核心要素 认识情绪:知道自己在经历什么情绪,比如愤怒、难过、紧张、嫉妒、羞愧、快乐、感激。 表达情绪:能够用适当的方式说出自己的感受,而不是压抑、爆发或转移情绪。 调节情绪:可以在情绪高涨或低落时,[
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什么是“明亮、整洁的人生”? “明亮”:有情绪的表达,有理解,有光照进来;孩子不会因为哭了被骂、因为失败被否定。 “整洁”:人际边界清楚,情绪不乱丢,不以爱之名互相控制和剥夺。父母活出自己,孩子成为自己。[
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这几日复盘了一下父母一代和下一代的感情纠葛和选择模式,希望我做一个强者,温柔坚定的带领大家开启一个明亮的人生,而不是动不动就吵一架混乱的期待和混乱的亲密关系。
一、家庭边界清单(FamilyBoundariesChecklist)
情感边界:
家庭成员有权表达真实感受,而不被指责或打压
情绪不是用来控制或操纵他人的工具
每个人都应为自己的情绪负责
金钱边界:
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moderninterpretationofBenjaminFranklin’s13Virtues,followedbykid-friendlyreflections
1.Temperance
ModernMeaning:Don’toverdoeatingordrinking.Staybalanced.
ForKids:Eatenoughtofeelgood,nottoomuchtofeelsleepyorsick.
TryThis:“TodayI’llstopeatingwhenI’mfull,notwhenmyplateisempty.”
2.Silence
ModernMeaning:Onlysaythingsthathelp,teach,orarekind.Don&rsquo...[
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1.TemperanceEatnottodullness;drinknottoelevation.2.Silence.Speaknotbutwhatmaybenefitothersoryourself;avoidtriflingconversation.3.Order.Letallyourthingshavetheirplaces;leteachpartofyourbusinesshaveitstime.4.Resolution.Resolvetoperformwhatyouought;performwithoutfailwhatyouresolve.5.Frugality.Makenoexpensebuttodogoodtoothersoryourself;i.e.,wastenothing.6.Industry.Losenotime;bealwaysemploy'dinsome...[
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