
AreYouinLovewithOnePersonWhileCommittedtoAnother?By MarkD.White,PhDCreated May162010-4:09amIncommentsonmyvariouspostson adultery,aswellasinrecentconversationswithfriendsbothnewandold,thetopicoflovingtwopeople(romantically)cameupratheroften.Canwetruly lovetwopeopleatonce,orwillwe unavoidablybeabandoningoneloveforanother?Andifindeedwecanlovetwopeopleatonce, areweshortch...[
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ExtremeEmbitterment:TheAngerEpidemicRagesEastwardBy Dr.StephenA.Diamond,Ph.D.Created May152010-9:20pm
Whatcausessomeonetoonedaygooutandbrutallykillasmanyostensiblyrandomvictimsastheycan?Pedestrians.Diners. Co-workers. Fellowstudents.Shoppers. Women.Sometimesevenlittlechildren.HereinAmerica,we'veseenthisdreadfulpatternrepeatedlyfordecades:Columbine, VirginiaTech,No...[
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MacGruber starand SaturdayNightLive'shilariousWillFortebringstolifegood-on-paperdudeswhoarereallyjustchumpsindisguise.Don'tsaywedidn'twarnyou.
AdrenalineJunkie
Thisdudeskydives,surfs,runswiththebulls—anythingforthatrush.Andhehasthesickabsandchiseledarmstoproveit. Buttokeephimhappy,youneedtobeinperpetualmotiontoo.Thisguydoesnotliketositonhisass...andhedoesn'tlikeforyo...[
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By LeslieBaumann,M.D. -PostedonThu,May13,2010,9:29pmPAccordingtoonestudy,upto three-quartersofAmericans arevitaminDdeficient,likelyduetoincreaseduseofsunscreens.Why?Becausethesun'sraystriggerthebodytoproducevitaminD,whichanincreasingbodyofresearchsuggestscanreducetheriskofcertaincancers,protecttheheart,andevendecreaseyourchancesofcatchingacold.Accordingtoonestudy,upto ...[
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"Experienceiswhatyougetwhenyoudidn'tgetwhatyouwanted."
"Wecannotchangethecardswearedealt,justhowweplaythehand."
"Thebrickwallsaretheretogiveusachancetoshowhowbadlywewantsomething."
"It'snotabouthowtoachieveyourdreams,it'sabouthowtoleadyourlife,...Ifyouleadyourlifetherightway,thekarmawilltakecareofitself,thedreamswillcometoyou."...[
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WiththeChevyVoltandNissanLeafhittingshowroomsthisyear,themass-producedelectriccar—acentury-olddream—becomesareality.Sowhataredesignersdreamingupnext?Electriccardesigners, TheNewYorkTimes reported,"havemadegreatadvancesinthepastfewyears."Thatwaswrittenin1911—thesameyearThomasEdisonannouncedabatterythatcouldpropelacar60milesonathree-minutecharge.Acenturylater,we'restillwaitingforEd...[
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RecoveringfromSorrow,LossandHeartache
Sometimes,whenwearerecoveringfromsorrow,lossorheartachewefeeltheneedtopushasideour grief lestitoverwhelmsuswithitsintensity.Thisisunderstandable,butthelongeryouavoidyourpainandattempttopushitaway,themoredifficultitwillbetobreakoutofyourparalysis.Justasbirdsaredrawntobreadcrumbsontheground,thepainwillkeepreturningafteryoushooitaway.Buddhismteaches...[
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By RobertL.Leahy,Ph.D.
Youwakeupat2AMworriedaboutthenextdayandcan'tgetbackto sleep.Thethoughtsthataregoingthroughyourheaddemandthatyourespondnowandgettheanswerimmediately.Laterintheday,tiredfromlosingsleep,youbegintoworryaboutthenextnight,thenextweek,andthedoomthatseemstohangonthehorizon.Whereveryouare,whatevertimeofday---youworry.Becauseyourespondtoyourintrusivethoughtwithrepet...[
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ToLoveWell,YouHavetoSometimesFeelInadequateBy StevenStosnyCreated May142010-10:42amAsurewaytoimproveyour marriage istoadmitthatyoudon'tknowwhatthehellyou'redoingwhenitcomestomakinganintimaterelationshipwork.Sayitrightnow,outloud:"Idon'tknowwhatthehellI'mdoing;Idon'tknowhowtomakeintimaterelationshipswork!"There,doesn'tthatfeelbetter?WhenItComestoLove,InadequacyisYourFr...[
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SOMETRUTHSABOUTLYINGBy KenEisold,PhDCreated Apr292010-6:47pmASkillinGreatDemandFewofuswoulddoubtthat lying canbeausefulskill. Stillitwassurprisingtoseethismonth’s HarvardBusinessReview reportonastudythatofferedsometipstoexecutivesonthesubject.TheresearchbyaprofessorattheColumbiaBusinessSchoolrevealedthatsuccessfullyingrequirestheconfidentassertionofpower:“Asens...[
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