IntheNameofLoveby SusanJohnson , HaraEstroffMaranoCreated Mar11994-1:00amAsthechildisconnectedtothe parent,tobeconnectedwithanotherpersonistheonlysecurityweeverhaveinlife.Inthatsensewenevergrowup.Anillusion.Ananesthetic.Anirrationalcompulsion.Aneurosis.Anemotionalstorm.Animmatureideal.Thesearethedescriptionsoflovethathavelongpopulatedthepsychologicalliterature.Letusnotev...[
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Forbes.comForbes.compublishedastoryAug.22,2006byeditorMichaelNoerontwo-careerrelationshipsthatprovokedaheatedresponsefrombothoutsideandinsideourbuilding.ElizabethCorcoran,amemberofourSiliconValleybureauandprincipalauthorofthemagazine'scurrent coverstoryonrobots,sentinthisrebuttal.Here'sa link forreaderdiscussion.
Point:Don'tMarryCareerW...[
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6SERIOUSRISKFACTORSFORCANCERWouldn'titbewonderfultostepintoDr.Oz'sTruthTubeandlearnifyouareatriskforcertaincancers?Unfortunately,figuringoutthecauseofcancerhasproventobeintenselycomplex.Wealreadyknowthatitisnotjustonethingthatcausescancerineveryone.Sometimescancermakesabeelinewhenapersoninheritsafaultygeneorisexposedtoapotentcarcinogen.Andsometimesthecauseisimpossibletopindown.Buttherearesomefac...[
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By TerriOrbuch,Ph.D.Created Jun72010-10:26amManypeoplewronglyassumethatusingan onlinedating serviceistheequivalentofthrowinginthetowelandscreaming,"Allrightalready,I'lldoit-I'mdesperate!"Actually,online dating isnotforthedesperate.Infact,researchshowsthatmorethan40millionAmericans(40percentofallsingles)useonlinedatingservices.Ithasbecomeaverysuccessfulwaytomeetth...[
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FindTheRealYouBy IlanaDonnaArazieCreated Jun62010-1:19pm
SometimesitfeelsliketheolderIget,thelessIknow.Howisthispossible!We’resupposedtobegettingsmarter,wiser,andmorefabulousasweage,right?(Okay,thepartabout“fabulous”mightonlybetrueforJenniferAnniston,whosebodycouldinspirethesequelto BenjaminButton!)Butitseemslike,asweage,wearebombardedwithmessagesfromadvertisers,family,frie...[
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ByLucyDanziger,theEditor-in-ChiefofSELFmagazine
Ifyouhadhorriblebackorstomachpain,you’dgetyourselftoadoctor(oremergencyroom!),immediately,right?Yet,whenthepainisemotional—forinstance, feelingpersistentlyworried,sadorhopeless—peoplearelikelytoresistseekinghelpformonthsorevenyears.Ina surveybySELFinconjunctionwithDiscoveryHealthandMentalHealthAmerica inAlexandria,Virginia,...[
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ByJoelOsteen
Ifyouwenttoheaventomorrow,wouldyoubeleavingagiftbehindthatyouhavenotsharedwiththeworld?Aretherethingsinyourheartyou’renotpursuingbecauseyou’reafraid,oryouthinkyou’retooold,you’retoobusy,ordon’thavewhatittakes?NowisthetimetogetoutofyourcomfortzoneandpursuewhatGodhasputontheinside.It’snevertoolatetopursuewhatGodhasplacedinyourheart,topursuenewopportunities,explorenewhobbies,br...[
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UltimateNapping:AHow-ToGuideBy LindaWasmerAndrewsCreated Jun52010-8:56amAcatnapmightsoundliketheultimateindulgence.Yetit’sanaturalpartofdailylifeforpeopleinmanycultures,nottomentionmorethan85%ofothermammals.Ifyou’rechronicallyoverworkedandunder-rested,however,you’llprobablywanttomakeeveryminuteofyournapcount.Andifyou’rea sciencejunkie,you’llundoubtedlywanttoensurethatyournappin...[
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By SusanNewman,Ph.D.Created Oct112008-8:26amFortyisthenew20whenitcomestohavingbabiescreating adistincttrendwithahostofpositivesforwomenwhodelaymotherhood includinglivinglongerthanthosewhogivebirthatyoungages.Whenmysonwasthree-years-old,heandmyhusbandwentouttobuytheweekendnewspapers.OneSunday,astheyapproachedthestore,agentlemancroucheddowntomyson'slevelandsaid,"It'ssoniceth...[
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YouChoose:PositiveorNegativeBy DaraChadwickCreated Jun42010-9:16amSigh...I'minneedofa"Cherslap."ACherslap,fortheuninitiated,is this. Don'tyoulovethegreatthwack,followedbyherno-nonsense"Snapoutofit?"MyfriendsandIhavealonghistoryofsaying,"YouneedaCherslap"wheneveroneofusgetsmiredinsomething negativeorsillyorjustplainridiculous.It'sawayofbringingeachotherbacktorealityandnot-s...[
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