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ByLucyDanziger,SELFEditor-in-Chief-PostedonThu,Mar04,2010,4:46pmPST
Doyouwishyoucouldspendmoreofyourdaysfeelingfulfilled?Orwonderwhyyouaren’thappier,despiteallthat’sgoodinyourlife?Ifyouletslip-upsorcriticismsnagyou,replayingthemasanegativeinnermonologuelongafterthesnafuhaspassed,youareinfactlikeeveryoneelse,atleastmostwomenIknow.
Ihavenewsthatreallywillputasmileonyourface.Youca...[
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By JenKimCreated Jan192010-6:06amAfewmonthsago,backinthegoldendaysofinterningatPT,Ireadablogthatchangedmylife--ScottBarryKaufmanorasIaffectionatelyrefertohimasSBKwrote: DoAssholesReallyFinishFirst?Hediscussedthephenomenonofwhywomenfallfor"badboys"or"assholes"andincludedvariousresearchtobacksuchclaims.Iencourageyoualltoreadhispostifyouhaven't,butifyouwantmyCliff'sNotesversion,fe...[
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By ScottBarryKaufman,Ph.D.
"Roy,ifyoucouldmaybeputtheotherperspectiveofwhatawomenreallywantsfromaman..."RoyMasters: "Listen,I'llgiveyouasimpleanswerthere.Shewantsamannottoneedher.Shewantsamantobesofulloflovethathedoesn'tneedanyfromher.Youknowwhathappensthen?Awomenwillloveamanwhodoesn'tneedlove,sohegetsitanyway."Seethisguy?Manyofusrecognizehim.He'stheclassic...[
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WhyhandsomemenmakebadhusbandsIBy SatoshiKanazawaCreated Apr32008-3:50pm
Youmayhaverecentlyheardorseenthenewscoverage(inthe NewYorkDailyNews or CBSnewsonline,amongothers;youmayhaveevenseentheleadauthor,JamesK.McNultyoftheUniversityofTennessee,discussitonthe Today show)ofastudy,publishedinthe JournalofFamilyPsychology,thatshowedthatcouplesinwhichthewomanis...[
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TheDangerOfHavingUnrealisticExpectationsBy AlexLickerman,M.D.Created Mar12010-8:12am
MywifeandIvividlyremembertheanesthesiologist'sstatement:"Youmayfeelalittle pressure."Shespokethewordgently,asiftoimplythat'showitwouldfeel,andwebelievedher.Epiduralblocks,sheexplained,don'tnumbthesacralnerverootsthatdeliversensationfromthepelvicfloorsomywifewouldlikelyfeelsomethingassheenteredth...[
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FindYourKnight-In-Shining-Armor(or,BetterYet,HelpHimFindYou):FiveSecretsofWomenWhoMeetMoreMenThanTheyCouldEverDateBy ShanePerrault,Ph.D.Created Mar72010-11:32amRecentlyaclientcameintomyofficeasking,“Whereareallthemen?”Atage32andwellintoher career,shehasfounditincreasinglydifficulttomeetmenoverthelastfewyears,andisnowwonderingwhereshewillmeetherknight-in-shining-armor. A...[
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ByJoelOsteen
Happinessisachoice.
It’seasytocomeupwithexcusestodelayourhappiness.Ifwehavetoalwayswaitforsomethingtohappentomakeushappy,wewillfindthatthereisalwayssomethingelsethatcankeepusfrombeinghappy.Psalm118says,“ThisisthedaytheLordhasmade.Iwillrejoiceandbegladinit.”WhenyouunderstandthatGodisdirectingyoursteps,youknowinfullconfidencethatwhereyouareisnotanaccident;it’sallapartofG...[
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By LeonF.Seltzer,Ph.D.Created Dec232008-9:58pm
Ifourvariouschildpartsarenotfullyintegratedintoouradultself,we'relikelyattimestofeellikeachildinsideanadult'sbody.Wewon'tbeabletofeeltrulygrownupbecauseourbasicsenseofselfhasn'tsufficientlyevolvedintotheactualadultwe'vebecome.Ourchronologicalage,ourbody,ourmindmayallsay"adult"...butourpsychenonethelesscontinuestosay"chil...[
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By JohnT.Cacioppo,Ph.D.Created Mar62010-2:29pmResilience asapropertyofasubstancereferstoitsabilitytorecoilorspringbackintoshapeafterbending,stretching,orbeingcompressed.Peoplecanalsobemoreorlessresilient,andinthiscontextresiliencereferstoaperson'sabilitytowithstandorrecoverquicklyfromdifficultconditions.Mostpeoplethinkaboutaperson'sresilienceasacapacitythat,akinto intellig...[
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