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Condition Yourself to Love Unconditionally
(2010-03-19 16:23:05)

ConditionYourselftoLoveUnconditionally
Eveninthehealthiestof relationships,opportunitiesaboundtofindfault,criticizeor"tweak"theotherpersonnomatterwhetherwearetalkingaboutamate,achildorafriend.Mostofuswereraisedinanenvironmentwhereratherthanfocusingonthepositive,weweretaughttozoominanddwellonthenegative.Breakingthathabitualwayofthinkingisamatterofconditioningourmindstorefocusan...[阅读全文]
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Conflict Resolution Without Words
(2010-03-19 16:21:28)

ConflictResolutionWithoutWordsInthelastfewdecades,partnershavespentcountlesshourstryingto“workoutproblems.”Yetoverandoveragaintheyoftencomeupagainstamajorroadblock:theyjustdon’tseethingsthesameway.Nomatterhowlongtheytalkandhowhardtheytry,neitherendsupfeelingreallyheardandunderstood.Whiletherearesomecouplesthatjustnaturallyseethingsthesameway,mostpeoplehaveareallyhardtimeseeingthingsthroughtheot...[阅读全文]
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Do You Have a Dependent Personality?
(2010-03-19 16:20:10)
DoYouHaveaDependentPersonality?By RobertLondon,MDCreated Mar192010-12:45pmPeoplewithdependent personality stylesordisordersoftenseektreatmentforwhattheydescribeasdepressionoruncontrolled anxiety.Buttheunderlyingbehaviorsincludedifficultymakingdecisionsandfeelingsofhelplessness, loneliness,andabandonment.Theanxietyappearstobepartofthissystem,astheoverallhelplessnessand...[阅读全文]
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Attack Every Problem Like A Lion Traps An Ant
(2010-03-18 14:34:03)


By AlexLickerman,M.D.Created Mar182010-8:17am
Lately,mywifeandIhavebeenhavingtroublewithourwaterheater.Overthelastfewmonthswe'vebeenfindingtheblowerblowingbutnogasrunningalongwithittoactuallyheatourwater.Recently,thegaswouldturnonforonly10minutesbeforeshuttingoff,leavingtheblowergoing,sometimesallnightwhileweslept.
Youdon'tfullyappreciatewhatyouhaveuntilyou'rethreatenedwithl...[阅读全文]
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Use Your Mating Intelligence
(2010-03-18 14:29:53)

UseYourMatingIntelligenceBy ScottBarryKaufman,Ph.D.Created Feb142009-4:36pm
There's intelligence involvedinmating?Well,maybenotmuchinactual sex acts-butsurelyeverythingleadinguptothatpointtakesupquitealotofmentalspace.Ifonlymatingbehaviorinhumanswereaseasyasitisinotheranimals!Inmanyspecieswithoutadvanced cognitive capabilities,twoanimalsbecomeattracted...[阅读全文]
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Run By Women, The World Would Be Better and More Fun
(2010-03-17 16:26:03)
RunByWomen,TheWorldWouldBeBetterandMoreFunBy ReginaBarreca,Ph.D.Created Mar172010-8:56amMendefinehistoryasarelentlessmarchofprogress.Idefineitasaparadeofdebaucheryandoppressionperpetratedbyasmallgroupof bloodthirstylunaticswithpenises,interruptedbytheveryoccasionalhumanitarianachievement.Historywouldhavebeenentirelydifferent,morefun,andlotsbetter,ifwomenhadbeenthedominant sex.U...[阅读全文]
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Can a relationship survive if someone cheats?
(2010-03-17 16:24:58)
TheBlindSide:WhenTheOneYouLoveCheatsBy AnnSmithCreated Mar172010-11:20amCheatershavebeenbignewslatelyfromTigerWoodstoJohnEdwards.Themediaaskswhodoesit,whytheydoit,signstolookfor,typesofcheatersandisitanaddiction?Althoughthatdiscussionisimportantittendstoneglecttheequallyimportantquestionsofwhatisitlikeforthepartnerofacheater,whoarethey,howdotheyfeel,dotheyeverrecoverandhowdotheydecidewhe...[阅读全文]
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Does a single life leave you lonely?
(2010-03-17 16:23:17)
MarriageGivestheOnlyTaxBreakforCommitmentBy IlanaSimons,Ph.D.Created Mar172010-11:33amMostofmyfriendsintheir30's--womenandmen--fearthatiftheydon'tmarry,they'llenduplonely.Or,worse:thatthey'llhavefailedinahighlypublicandwidelyacceptedAmerican personality test.This fear aboutthepainoflivingsingleisnotquitehysteria,becauseit'srootedindata.Marriedpeoplegenerallylivelonger...[阅读全文]
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13 million Americans may have undiagnosed thyroid conditions
(2010-03-17 16:21:52)
ThyroidandMentalHealthBy RobertJ.Hedaya,M.D.,D.F.A.P.A.Created Mar172010-12:50pmArecentstudyknownastheColoradoThyroidDiseasePrevalenceStudy,foundthat13millionAmericansmayhaveundiagnosed thyroidconditions,andsuggestedthatmorewidespreadthyroidtestingisneeded.Amongtheirfindingsarethefactthat 9.9percentofthepopulationhadathyroidabnormalitythathadgoneunrecognized.Anunderactivethyroi...[阅读全文]
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We must learn to trust our own judgment and feelings again.
(2010-03-17 16:20:02)

ASimpleExercisetoIncreaseTrustinYourselfBy SusanneBabbel,Ph.D.,MFTCreated Mar172010-1:12pm"We'reneversovulnerablethanwhenwetrustsomeone—butparadoxically,ifwecannottrust,neithercanwefindloveorjoy."-WalterAndersonMerriamWebsterdictionarydefinestrustasthe"assuredrelianceonthecharacter,ability,strength,ortruthofsomeoneorsomething"and"oneinwhichconfidenceisplaced."Butunfortunately,trustcanbe...[阅读全文]
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