脆弱的人容易做卑贱的事情。贫穷是一种磨难，脆弱的人因此会乞讨甚至偷窃，所谓人穷志短。孤独也是一种磨难，脆弱的人就会因此而卑贱，忘了从何而来，所向而去。人有一时的脆弱，却不可以不思长进。因为卑贱和幸福永远是两个极地。
分手了就是分手了，几个月都不相问了。不要在这长假日孤独的煎熬下又打来电话，这与我来说，是卑贱。[阅读全文]
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Therealityiscrueljustasoneofthegirlsinthegroupsaid,chinesewomenover35yearsoldhavelimitedmarketamongchinesemeninthestates.ThinkingofthedreamedfamilylifeIwant,Idecidedtopursueamericanmenmarket.Therearealotofthingsyoucandotocreatethechanceofencounterofpotentialdates,suchasgoingtogym,showingupandlookingconfusedintheaisleofhomedepot,readingincoffeeshops,goingforgolfing,andonlinedating.IjuststartedandIg...[阅读全文]
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Oneofourprofessorstoldusthatawellbalancedlifeshouldconsistofthreeparts:careerlife,familylifeandpersonallife.Well,IthinkmylifecouldbemorebalancedifIhavemyfamilylifegoingon.Butinthepast,familylifewasallIconcerned.AsawomanraisedupinatraditionalChinesefamily,"husband"hadbeenthecenterofmylife.Therewasnolifeornomoodto"enjoy"otherpartsoflifeifthere'snoahusbandaround.Icouldn'tbeusedtolivingalonehappily.阅读全文]
(2009-03-27 18:10:45)
It'sagoodideatowritedownandcherishthismovingmomenthappenedtodayintheoffice.Mr.Twigisaverynicegentelman.Heisaboutsixtyyearsold,notrichbutwithverygoodmanners.Hehasbeenontimeforhiseveryappointmentandhadnevercomplainedaboutwaitingtime.Heseesmenotonlyasaprofessionalinlabcoat,butalsoayoungladywhoneedssupportandencouragement.Hiskindness,patienceandtoleranceisinsharpcontrasttomanyotherdemandingandcomplain...[阅读全文]
(2009-03-26 17:49:51)
"Suckitup".IgottorepeatthesewordseverytimeIwanttocomplainaboutmylife.Nouseofcomplaining.Theonlythingthatmakesdifferenceinyourlifeandyourrelationshipisonlytofacetheproblemandfindasolution.Thesolutioncouldbebreakingup.Nomatterhowharditis,youjustgottosuckitupanddealwiththeconsequencesofyourwell-thoughtsolution.Lifeisnoteasynomatteryouaresingleorhavingone/oneswithyou.
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"试想，人的一生，谁没有个坎坷？要正视生活，快乐面对。惟有来自灵魂的笑，才真正是一朵永开不败的鲜花……"Lovethewords.Tryingtolovetherealworldandrealpeople.Nothingisperfectandnothingisthatbad.[阅读全文]
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Leavinglasvegasisamoviedescribingthelifeoftwodesperatedpeople,thealcoholicman(actedbyNicolasCage)andaprostitute.Thewholemovieisgloomy.Yourheartwillbetwitchedbytheunerasablepainofthisman'smindincontrasttothetoleranceofthiswomantoallkindsofsufferings.Intheend,theever-upper-classmandranktodeath.Andthisprostitutewomanwasrecallingthehappymomentswithhim.
Andthemovieseemscriticizing"normal"people'sme...[阅读全文]
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大城小事由王菲和黎明主演。很喜欢这部片子的风格，平淡的情节，唯美的音乐，浪漫的画面。很像王菲的歌，是一种沁人心脾的享受，也许还因为故事里演绎的都是真情。有时候真的不愿面对现实的复杂和人性的丑陋。[阅读全文]
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IfeltIcan'tmakepeacelivinginAmerica!Thediscriminationgotworse!EverytimeIsteppedinandoutofastore,thealarmjustwenton!IsthisawarningtomebecauseIamachinese?Isthereanassumptionthateverychinesesteals?Ifeltsooffended.Finally,Icouldn'tholdin.Inhomedepot,Iwenttotheclerkandconfronted:"What'swrongwithyouralarmsystem?It'sbeepingevenwhenIjustwalkedin!"TheclerkgirlsaidsorryandthatitcouldbecellphoneorsomethingIa...[阅读全文]
