Facing frustration

People who fail to achieve their goals usually get stopped by frustration. They allow frustration to keep them from taking the necessary actions that would support them in achieving their desire. You get through this roadblock by plowing through frustration, taking each setback as feedback you can learn from, and pushing ahead. I doubt you'll find many successful people who have not experienced this. All successful people learn that success is buried on the other side of frustration.

~Anthony Robbins

[melly]

回复静水苍兰的评论:

Thanks.Very enjoyable song.

I realized that I have not listened to music and songs for a while. How could it happen? 罪过，罪过. So on my way back home, I drown myself into music and sang along.

[melly]

回复flamenco_girl的评论:

Thank you girl, you are absolutely right.

The problem is for some reason,at some stages of life, one might lose his/her goal a bit, or at least the goal is not very clear. The process of finding it again is painful,isn't it? Keeping optimistic and patient is truly needed.

[静水苍兰]

http://blog.wenxuecity.com/blogview.php?date=200705&postID=41873

Don't lose your way
With each passing day
You've come so far
Don't throw it away
Live believing
Dreams are for weaving
Wonders are waiting to start
Live your story
Faith, hope & glory
Hold to the truth in your heart

If we hold on together
I know our dreams will never die
Dreams see us through to forever
Where clouds roll by
For you and I

Souls in the wind
Must learn how to bend
Seek out a star
Hold on to the end
Valley, mountain
There is a fountain
Washes our tears all away
Words are swaying
Someone is praying
Please let us come home to stay

If we hold on together
I know our dreams will never die
Dreams see us through to forever
Where clouds roll by
For you and I

When we are out there in the dark
We'll dream about the sun
In the dark we'll feel the light
Warm our hearts, everyone

If we hold on together
I know our dreams will never die
Dreams see us through to forever
As high as souls can fly
The clouds roll by
For you and I

[flamenco_girl]

Although I'm not sure exactly what you are going through, one thing you might want to consider is that don't set your goal too high, and start with something that you can feel you are able to get there.

Best wishes!

[melly]

回复flamenco_girl的评论:

Thanks for stopping by.

I will try to be positive though it is not so easy now.

take care.

[flamenco_girl]

The begining stage always involves more work. It could be helpful by keeping your mood lightened up.

I'm buried by work these days too.

Best Wishes!

[melly]

回复edrifter的评论:

Thank you, edrifter.

I have been busy with family issues lately, which put lot of pressure on me.

I will try to be patient.

Much appreciate.

[edrifter]

Have to re-do it since the spelling messed up. You can delete the following one. Thanks.
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So, how're you? Melly. Have not seen you for a while.

A wise (wo)man should be superior to any plight that causes frustration upon her(im) and the best response to frustration is patience and moderation.

Take care!

[edrifter]

So, how're you? Melly. Have not seen you for a while.

An wise (wo)man should be superior to any plight that causes frustration upon her(im) and the rest response to frustration is patience and moderation.

Take care!

[melly]

回复归来的评论:

hopefully, I know where the door is as soon as possible.Thank you.

[归来]

回复melly的评论:
Definitely sure, another bigger and brighter door!

[melly]

回复飞飞~的评论:

Hope you will be better.

[melly]

回复归来的评论:

Are you sure God will open another door for me?

[飞飞~]

最近我好像也在人生的低潮。看一下鼓励鼓励自己。：)

[归来]

A CLOSED DOOR DOES NOT MEAN FAILURE. God will open another door for you.

Thanks for sharing Anthony Robbins' Wisdom words