朋友如书

(感谢lindows友情惠赠！)

人的一生不可以没有朋友，没有朋友就好比天空没有了太阳，让人生没有温暖一样。在我心目中，朋友是上帝赐予我最好的礼物，所以，我总怀着一颗感恩的心，感谢上帝让我认识了人生路上的许多朋友们！　　
　　
　　《札记》中写道：“与君子游，如入芝兰之室，久而不闻其香，则与之化矣。”可以说是道出了朋友的真谛。好友如一册好书，在这部书中最能读出生活的种种乐趣。生活中我们常常会为一些事所困扰，此时与三五好友相聚，让朋友们的谈笑风生驱散你心中的阴霾，让他们的幽默与风趣使你开怀大笑，让你从消沉中振奋起来，重新用微笑去面对生活的每一天！　　
　　
　　我们有时与好友交往不需要用很多语言，只消一个眼神、一个手势，一个握手足矣。好友是用心灵感受的一种默契与相知，许多时候我们或许更愿意沉浸在那种“无声胜有声”的意境里，去感受着彼此那份深深的友情，去体会着彼此那份浓浓的关怀。　　
　　
　　真正的朋友在相交时大多不带功利性，而是用心灵去感悟、去品味的一种真挚情感。它是一种淡如水、浓若醇的友情，好比久存的老酒愈久弥香。朋友相处不是相互利用，而是有难时真心的相帮，你不求回报却能在遇难之时得到倾心的相助。在我们生命的历程中，能分享朋友的快乐是一种享受，能分担朋友的痛苦则是一种幸福，读书贵在用心，读书并不单单是为了书中的“颜如玉”、“黄金屋”，而是为了充实自已，积累知识。同样友情也必须用心去维护。它容不得欺骗、受不得虚伪，连接朋友情感的纽带是真诚、尊重与宽容。只有对好友付出自已真诚与友爱，才能收获友情的温暖与幸福。　
　　
　　真正成功的人生应是善于发现朋友，让自已去认识真正值得一交的好友，只有以心换心才能赢得真正的友情。朋友贵在知心，子期与伯牙的知已之交流传百世，正是因为知心难得才显得弥足珍贵！
　　
　　朋友如书。有的朋友内心如山花般烂漫，感觉是生动引人的小人书；有的朋友豪情满怀壮志凌云，感觉是武侠小说；有的朋友低幽深情如潺潺流水，感觉是抒情性散文；有的朋友细语款述不见人面但闻竹声，感觉是一篇小品文字；有的朋友想象力极强，与之交流，恍惚天上人间任你游，这样的朋友应该是一首难得的诗篇；还有的朋友身世坎坷却有着极为强大的内心向上的力量，仿佛一部耐读的小说。　
　　
　　好好地珍惜好友这本书，随时打开它读一读那动人的章节，品味书中那感人的情怀，相信这本书一定不会让你失望的，朋友如书！

[melly]

haha.... Helen, it is not an assignment at all. See, you like taking responsibilities. hehe..

Thank you, dear. I am really honored by your good words. you have decorated me a lot. Guess what? I have never had a friend like you, so ambitious, so sharp, so delicate, so straightforward, so brave and so tough.(can't think more, will add later). You are very special to me. Actually, I learned and will keep learning from you. You are like a very intriguing and enjoyable thick book, which deserves to read slowly and carefully.

So stay tune.

[blhw72]

Good question. I remember, at the very beginning when you sent me the first msg, we just clicked each other and mutually initated the journey of our friendship.

It's wonderful that the journey so far has been pleasant.

I have to admit, I barely read books because I am restless. LOL. Since medical school, I no longer wanted to read long story for I'd been buried in thick and big medical books.

Honey, it's a bit hard for me to accurately define you as what kind of book. I only heard your voice and saw your writing. However, I'd like to give a try.

As I've seen in you, you are an exquisite book with a freshing and lucid cover. In the early pages, you were revealed unadorned, indifferent and calm. You appeared a simple but elegant one.
As I've seen in you deeper. Surprisingly, such a tiny thing contains amazing potential and passion and sentiments, as a volcano. On the other hand, the insights you provided pleased and astonished me that you'd just read my mind.

Mostly, in you, the strive perseverance and tenacity for sth you had belief in life and are pursuing in life, touched my heart. While you said I was tough, it is a shame that actually I am not as strong as you think.

The book of your definitely intrigued and delighted me. It keeps me there continually to read......

Alright, Melly lao shi, happy with my work for your assignment? ;-)

[melly]

回复blhw72的评论:

This one is very beautiful, like a poem, isn't it?

What kind of book am I like? xoxo

[blhw72]

Bravo!