Does anything really bother me on a personal level? Not really. I usually don’t let any annoying things stuck in my head for more than two days. I would like to find solutions to solve them. If I can’t, then I would want to let them go.
I still remember one episode at work about the misunderstanding between my co-worker and me. He went to his boss to complain about me for not doing his way (I guess he thought his way was the best way) to help solve his project related problem. So what did I do about this? I went to talk to him directly and explain to him what was the workflow for our group to solve that kind of problem. And also let him know if he had any concern about how to get work done more effectively, it would be nice to talk to me first, and it was really not nice to say something untrue behind my back. After meaningful conversation between us, we became good collaborators later on.
Being a blogger on WXC for about a year, I like reading some articles and also like some intellectual debates on controversial points. I may also find some people annoying due to their mean spirits. But hey, they are none of my business and I just ignore them. If I am really annoyed, I would write up something to express what I think, then move on! It is not worth of wasting time on the people who don’t deserve.
Being happy is not let any negative things interfere with one's life.