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First Weekend of August

(2017-08-05 12:59:44) 下一个
I am alone all by myself for the weekend. LD flew early this morning to help our daughter settle down. I meant to go back to sleep after sending him off to the airport. However tired and sleep-needy, I remained awake on bed. Then I decided to go to an auto repair shop to have the car maintained. The maintenance light has been on for a week. It is time for a  checkup.  By 8:15am, I was at Henry's Auto Repair Shop, waiting and reading WSJ in the room. 
 
Henry's auto shop is located 20 miles away. The owner is a Chinese, who is pretty honest and trustworthy. Except for regular oil change that is normally done locally for the old car,  we have been here a couple of times whenever there is an issue. Though low mileage and no other big problem,  this old Honda car is aging anyway.  There are gas leakings in four areas. Henry suggested getting three places fixed first, and I need to wait another two or three hours ( in reality, it is almost 4 hours already by the time I am writing this).  I nodded, as I don't want to come back another time. With a cell phone and the newspaper, I guess it will be fine for the long wait, though I felt a bit tired after a wakeful night and an early rise. Maybe it won't be long before we need to buy another new car. 
 
Sitting and closing my eyes, I tried to meditate. The fan and the TV has been on,  with louder mechanic noises coming from windows next to workshop. In meditation, I tried to steep myself in the joy of being solidary, the joy of having the whole weekend to myself.  Being alone always means complete freedom and flexibility, and I am so looking forward to it.:))) However this is tainted now with the seemingly endless wait.
 
As hours drag on, I felt back pain, and my impatience escalated by minutes. I should have chosen to come back another time with LD's company. I made the wrong decision today.
 
Henry then apologetically told me that the technician was at lunch, which reminded me of my rumbling stomach. I walked out in the scorching sun to search for food in the new neighborhood, but to no avail.  I don't know how long I have to wait more. That is the cost of being frugal.  A rich person with a new car will never experience this.  I cannot help questioning the "virtue" of frugality. The cost, the opportunity cost, hidden and invisible, is sometimes unbelievably high!
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暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 '彩烟游士' 的评论 : 谢游士特来看望。上周六没见你post新的内容啊?同问好!
彩烟游士 回复 悄悄话 暖冬好!过来看看你,祝你新周快乐!
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 '思韵如蓝' 的评论 : 思韵懂我,你那日那篇新旧鞋子,很有感慨。改天再来写一篇,节约和不节约。思韵周日快乐!
思韵如蓝 回复 悄悄话 姐姐跟我一样,总想节俭,结果又节成了浪费---穷人永远的悲哀!:) 以后我们都想开点,哈哈!
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 '彩烟游士' 的评论 : Thank you, scholar You. Thanks for your greeting every Friday. It is already autumn, and soon you will have a fruitful and harvest season. Good luck, and happy harvesting!
彩烟游士 回复 悄悄话 Another week
Another nice piece of writing
Time flies
Summer is almost over
暖冬周末快乐!
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 'erdong' 的评论 : 谢谢迩东,没想到这么久的,先生正好也不在身边。所以才有此经历。谢谢你的建议和留言!
erdong 回复 悄悄话 我们一般先约个时间,开两部车去,把检修的车留下,就去shopping。等他们来电话后再去取。在那里等那么长时间受不了。
暖冬八月快乐!
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 '狮子羔羊' 的评论 : 狮子好!你也有类似的经历啊,你还会唱歌,来打发心情和时间啊,:))我是足足等了六个小时,下次再也不干这种傻事了。谢谢狮子临博!
狮子羔羊 回复 悄悄话 我上次也是的开始告诉我是一个小时,我就决定等了。后来告诉我有两个recall,需要三个小时。我立刻唱起了“rain,rain go away, come again the other day...."

一个重要原因是我的手机没电了,电脑也没带,没法工作。

暖美眉可别饿坏了,想法子吃点东西,一般车行都有些小零食和饮料的。
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 'Once-always' 的评论 : mm百忙之中还来看我的博客啊,谢谢了。是啊,时间在fixed income valuation重要,在我个人也应该重视的。那天没想到会等这么久,老公一起来,至少可以载我回家的,老夫老妻了,还弹什么琴啊:)))
Once-always 回复 悄悄话 暖mm is talking about the time value here which is the most Important piece in fixed income valuation. Since I'm at work let's have some work-related conversation. 这样虎老板不能说我开小差了吧, hehe. waiting挺磨练人的意志的,好在暖mm爱读书爱写文,可以打发一段时间。下回让LD陪着,可以一边等一边谈情说爱。:)
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 'ziqiao123' 的评论 : 谢子乔问候,昨天主要是太累,整整等了六个小时,加上前一天晚上没睡几个小时,加上想想自己这辈子错过的机会,不知能买多少辆好车了。节约is not always a virtue.今天恢复正常了。谢谢子乔。
ziqiao123 回复 悄悄话 暖冬昨天有点儿郁闷,今天心情可好?我们那个年代过来的都有节俭的习惯,其实是一个很好的习惯,我们下一代就没有了。周日愉快!
暖冬cool夏 回复 悄悄话 回复 '夕阳影里一归舟' 的评论 : 归舟妹妹好! I finally got my car after 2pm. The part they ordered and delivered did not fit, and in the end, Henry's wife had to go to dealer and get it in person. It was such a long day. I brought with me enough to read, but was too tired and thus restless The auto shop is in the commercial area and strangely enough, I did not find any food, restaurant or grocery store nearby. The cost of being frugal in this context is the time. Yes, frugality is a habit and it is not always a virtue. You may save less but lose more. Thank you for your visit, asking and comment.
夕阳影里一归舟 回复 悄悄话 So for how long eventually did you wait? I believe you could find something to feed your rumbling stomach. I always carry a Kindle, easily killing any number of waiting minutes/hours. Now with half of the weekend gone, do you feel the same about the luxury of having too much time at hand?;-) Being frugal is a habit, it is not about math. Happy Sunday, at any rate!
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