1) with dignity and honor
2) a sense of duty to serve the public and the country
3) a sense of humility to ordinary folks
4) a sensw of humor to break tension in group of people
5) resilience: put down but bounce back up
6) love God above all, be a vessel to be used by the creator
(Note-taking: Driving through the heavy rain, I listened to George W. Bush eulogy speech on - mourning and celebrating the great life of his President Dad H. Bush, the #41 President of the US.) - I got that why his Dad hated Broccolli - veggie intolerance syndrom. W Bush moved me to tear down my cheek)
Grandfather: Prescott Sheldon Bush (May 15, 1895 – October 8, 1972) was an American banker and politician. investment banker, he represented Connecticut in the United States Senate from 1952 to 1963.
Wikipedia (Ring leader of the US Senate, he gave a hat to junior senator Richard Nixon)
Father: H. Bush
Son: W. Bush
Former Canadian Prime Minister Brian Mulroney has praised former U.S. President George H.W. Bush - "many ships, but the most of all is friend-ship "
YPG mourns the loss of former President George H.W. Bush. President and Mrs. Bush visited the proving ground in March 1997, where he conducted his first parachute jump since bailing out of his Avenger torpedo bomber after being struck by enemy fire in World War II.pic.twitter.com/nQnyrLnlQM
In 1997, Bush made a parachute jump for the first time since World War II. He did it again in 2000 to mark his 75th birthday — and still again for his 80th, 85th and 90th ones. “Old guys can do neat things,” he said. https://wapo.st/2E4Bb2kpic.twitter.com/OCiIH9Lu1E
“I once heard it of said of man that the idea is to die young as late as possible,” George W. Bush said in the eulogy of his father, who went skydiving to celebrate his 85th (pictured here) and 90th birthdays. https://nbcnews.to/2U67ItVpic.twitter.com/7zehMQqRMb
There has long been speculation about the relationship between the first father and son to reach the White House since John Adams and John Quincy Adams two centuries ago. (The younger Adams only learned of the elder’s death after his burial.) Historians have scoured the path both Bushes took — Yale, stints flying fighter planes, the oil business and politics — for every sign of rivalry, jealousy and intrafamily psychodrama. Oedipus Tex.
Slide 1 of 36: KENNEBUNKPORT, ME - JUNE 12: Film Subject President George H.W. Bush celebrates his 88th birthday following the HBO Documentary special screening of "41" on June 12, 2012 in Kennebunkport, Maine. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images for HBO)
But the reality was simpler, historians say, and was visible in George W. Bush’s grief, which will be on display again Wednesday as the 43rd president eulogizes the 41st president at Washington National Cathedral.
“He gave us unconditional love. And some of us tested it, I might add,” said George W. Bush in a “60 Minutes” interview that aired two nights after his father’s death.
Rather than Greek drama, the Bushes had an ordinary father-son bond that played out in extraordinary settings, these scholars contend. There were good times and bad, periods of distance and rebellion, the pain of loss and the joy of triumph. But whatever the weather, the climate was always loving.
“I think it was a tense relationship when George W. was in his sowing-his-wild-oats phase; and that was a pretty long phase,” said Jeffrey Engel, director of the Center for Presidential History at Southern Methodist University, who has interviewed both Bushes. “But by the end, they were peers.”
Presidential scholar Mark Updegrove spent years talking with the Bushes and those who knew them for his 2017 book on their relationship, “The Last Republicans.” Of all the anecdotes he collected, he finds one of the most telling to be a moment of everyday parenting: George and Barbara Bush were walking with their toddler son when little George went into a tantrum, wind-milling blows against his dad.
“His father just holds him at bay with a palm against his red forehead and until he tires out,” Updegrove said. “And then they just walk. There was a way in which George W. would transgress and his father would have the patience to know that his better angels would eventually take hold.”
Both presidents resisted any effort to “put them on the couch,” but the senior Bush left a rich emotional record in thousands of letters he wrote to family and friends through his life. In them, he makes clear the full play of fatherly emotion toward his often-rambunctious oldest child.
“Georgie has grown to be a near-man, talks dirty once in a while and occasionally swears, aged 4 1/2,” he wrote to his friend Gerry Bemiss soon after taking his family from Connecticut to Midland, Tex. “He lives in his cowboy clothes.”
And then when his son was 9 years old: “Georgie aggravates the hell out of me at times (I am sure I do the same to him), but then at times I am so proud of him I could die,” he wrote to his father-in-law. “He is out for Little League — so eager. He tries so very hard. It makes me think back to all the times I tried out.”
In 1953, the boy was old enough to understand that tragedy had come to the family. His younger sister Robin had been sick. The Bushes had taken her to New York for treatment and one day months later, he was thrilled when they returned.
She had died of leukemia, a crushing loss that by all accounts brought the Bushes closer together as a couple and a family.
Soon after, George H.W. Bush began his political rise that took him from local party boss to Congress, national Republican chairman, U.N. ambassador and head of the C.I.A. His son, meanwhile, fell in line on the father’s path to the Ivy League and then back to Texas to look for oil.
It was a well-documented stretch of both work and partying for the younger Bush. His drinking produced some public embarrassments — including one 1985 episode in which he shouted profanity at Wall Street Journal reporter Al Hunt in a Dallas restaurant over a political story that he felt slighted his father, who was then in his second term as vice president.
The boozing was worrying his wife, Laura, and, Bush would say later, alcohol “was beginning to crowd out my energies.” But Bush Senior’s lofty roles also loomed large. “He looked in the mirror and said ‘Someday I might embarrass my father,’” his friend Joe O’Neil recounted in Updegrove’s book.
George W. would quit cold turkey in July 1986. That same month, his father asked him to be a senior adviser in his presidential campaign.
“There is not one scintilla of evidence that he ever thought his son was badly wayward,” Updegrove said. “The narrative that George W. Bush was the family ne’er-do-well is vastly overblown.
”The younger Bush quickly became a full participant in the Bush apparatus, serving as pugnacious gatekeeper during the campaign and an enforcer of sorts in the White House.
“If he needed someone fired, it was often W. who did it,” said Engel.
Father and son had become political partners, even if there was a vast gulf between president and adviser. Remarkably, even that gap would close. Employing all the family assets — from fundraising to friendships — George W. began his own rapid political rise, from the governorship of Texas to, finally, the same Oval Office his dad had occupied.
If there was any rivalry in having to share the country’s highest title with his son, it didn’t show in the giddy, exuberant, detailed letter about George W.’s inauguration that the elder Bush wrote to his friend Hugh Sidey, a Time magazine writer. Friends were suddenly calling him “41.”
“It’s funny after all these years to get a new name; but, hey, what does it matter if your boy is the president of the United States of America so help me God,” he wrote.
They frequently called each other “Mr. President” when together, according to Engel, a respectful joke open to no father and son but them.
History may have gotten its best insight into this remarkable relationship at the very end of it. In his final minutes, George H.W. Bush was on the phone with George W. The last words the 41st president ever spoke were to the 43rd, a four-word epitaph of everything they meant to each other: