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"人生无常,放下那些虚无缥缈的东西,虽然不能信奉好死不如赖活着,这句千百年来流传下来的名言,但是,有什么比生命更可贵的东西呢。

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60岁是生命中的一道坎?

2018-06-13 07:57:05

康赛欧

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认识的几个朋友,绝大多数是男性,在60岁不到的时候,由于各种疾病,就撒手人寰了。我没去查统计数据,是否这个年龄段的人比较容易得病,但我觉得周围发生的事,也许是偶然,但能说明一定的问题。

人在从中年步入老年时,身体机构一定在发生某些巨大变化,这个时期非常容易疾病缠身,我不懂医,只是凭着一些感觉。这就如同前两天被拉去参加jury duty,虽然不太想前去,但我知道每个公民是要履行社会义务的,逃避是绝对行不通的。当时听到法官问一个人问题:如果一个警察和一个修车的说你的车里的某个零件坏了,你更信谁的话?那人回答:当然信修车人的。法官露出满意的笑容。这个问题对成年人来说看似可笑,可是法官看的是你这人是否有common sense. 在我们55人中,法官和律师要选出十几个人来参加当天的庭审,所以要问些问题。我知道所有被拉去参加jury duty 的人都不是学法律的,就是需要我们的common sense, 也就是说发自本能的好的判断能力。

工作劳累,生活和饮食习惯是会造成人的寿命的长短,但是我认为外因只是起到了催化作用,而内因是起到了决定性作用。有朋友得骨髓癌去世,在美帝这么好的医疗条件下,病愈康复,可是一年后还是复发走了,没能到达60岁。癌症是各个年龄段都能得的病,可周围去世的人,都是不到60岁,基本上得的是癌症。当今社会,老年痴呆发病率也在大大地提前,我以前觉得这种病,七老八十才会得,可我的想法有些以偏概全了。我过去的一个同事,她的丈夫是我这个州的大法官,可在55,56岁时得了老年痴呆,本来是个很有前途的法官,不得不挥泪离开了工作岗位。更不幸的是,这个同事在丈夫确诊得病后不久,发现自己得了乳腺癌,在经过几年的治疗后,最近走了,她只有60来岁,留下了一个得老年痴呆的丈夫。

在父亲节来临之际,我说这些似乎不吉利,应该吃吃喝喝,高高兴兴地庆祝节日,可是,节日是庆祝不完的,就看我们有多少命能参加这些节日了。人生无常,放下那些虚无缥缈的东西,虽然不能信奉好死不如赖活着,这句千百年来流传下来的名言,但是,有什么比生命更可贵的东西呢。人生不如意事十之八九,不追求完美,只追求心中的快乐,是今后我在有限的生命中的写照。无法追求生命的长度,就只能增加生命的宽度,至于这个宽度怎么个增加法,那是仁者见仁,智者见智的事,而我认为反正是不能和自己过不去,不能跟别人较劲还同时跟自己较劲,让我们共勉吧。

每天一讲 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:33:07

小康,痴呆症和老年痴呆症是有区别的,后者更为严重。

前几天去老美朋友家玩,朋友和我有23年的友谊,在上海时就认识了,她说她现在68岁了,儿孙满堂,家境也很好,下个月又要到北欧去玩了,但是她说她现在容易忘记事情,也担心会得老年痴呆症。

癌症各个年龄段都有,我兄弟的妹妹是护士去年辞掉了在儿童医院的工作,因为心理上无法忍受这么小的孩子得癌症。

我们这些身体健康的人比起那些病人实在是太幸运和幸福了。

康赛欧 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:30:20

回复 '菲儿天地' 的评论 : 谢谢!

菲儿天地 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:19:39

回复 '吃出健康' 的评论 : +珍惜,关爱自己的生命。

康赛欧 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:10:46

回复 '吃出健康' 的评论 : 你对未来很乐观,欣赏你的好心态!

吃出健康 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:06:53

同意你的观点,六十岁就是生命中的一道坎,闯过去了,一般活七八十岁没有问题。你分析的很有道理。

康赛欧 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:02:47

回复 '杜鹃盛开' 的评论 : 好像是,谢谢来访!

康赛欧 发表评论于 2018-06-13 10:02:08

回复 'yy56' 的评论 : 你的心态真好!

杜鹃盛开 发表评论于 2018-06-13 09:35:41

我知道的生大病的,基本都是40几岁的年纪。好像听说这个年纪最脆弱。生命无常,珍惜眼前。

yy56 发表评论于 2018-06-13 09:05:27

到了这个年龄,就要重新调整自己,以“和为贵”,和自己的身体讲和,和周围的人和事讲和。

康赛欧 发表评论于 2018-06-13 08:39:33

回复 '晓青' 的评论 : 说的真好!

晓青 发表评论于 2018-06-13 08:35:11

是啊,好多人60多岁生大病。真是健康第一。

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Black Field
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Directed by Vardis Marinakis
Written by Vardis Marinakis
Starring Christos Passalis
Sofia Georgovassili
Cinematography Marcus Waterloo
Edited by Yannis Chalkiadakis
Running time
104
Country Greece
Language Greek

Black Field (Greek: Μα?ρο Λιβ?δι) is a Greek film, directed by Vardis Marinakis. The film released in 2009 and it stars Sofia Georgovassili and Christos Passalis. It won one award in Hellenic Film Academy Awards in category Best Cinematography. The film also won accolades in Mumbai International Film Festival[1] and Seville European Film Festival.[2] The film is shot in the places of Epirus and Thessaly.

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In 1654 in Greece under Ottoman rule, a solitary janissary collapses from his wounds outside an isolated Orthodox monastery for women. The nuns take him in and one with medical skills, Areti, tends him with the help of another, the young and shy Anthi. Both are fascinated by the presence of a man and, as he recovers, Areti starts an affair with him while Anthi has conflicting emotions. Learning that he is a deserter with a price on his head, the nuns realise that they dare not hide him and inform the authorities. As a contingent of soldiers arrives to collect him, Anthi escapes with him and the two go on the run. In the woods, a dark secret comes out. Anthi is in fact a boy, who was hidden in the monastery to avoid the devsirme, the kidnapping of Orthodox children by the Ottomans as recruits for the army. Initially disgusted, the soldier slowly builds up a comradeship with the gauche lad but one day they are recaptured. Anthi is taken back to the monastery, where Areti is pregnant and hangs herself in despair. Anthi runs away and rejoins the janissary, who has killed his captors. The two go off into the woods again.[3][4]

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The Eastern Orthodox Church, also known as the Orthodox Church, or officially as the Orthodox Catholic Church, is the second-largest Christian Church, with over 250 million members. As one of the oldest religious institutions in the world, it has played a prominent role in the history and culture of Eastern Europe, Greece, the Caucasus, and the Near East. It operates as a communion of autocephalous churches, each typically governed by its own group of Bishops called a Holy Synod. The Church has no central doctrinal or governance authority analogous to the Roman Catholic Church's pope; however, the Ecumenical Patriarch of Constantinople is recognised by all as primus inter pares of the bishops.

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