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怎样培养内心强大的孩子?通俗点讲,内心强大可以理解为心理素质好,心态好,关键时刻直觉敏锐,胜不骄败不馁,不以物喜,不以己悲,等等。这个素质不论对天才还是平庸,不论选择什么生活道路,都是一个人过上幸福生活的关键,这个大家没异议吧?大家在这方面都有自己的体会和实践,很多地方值得我学习,我自己也是摸着石头过河,不敢说我的就是对的。不过本着[阅读全文]
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(2013-01-22 12:02:05)
Listen========Liyahasahatintheshapeofanowl,shestuffeditwithsomesmalltoysandshowedtome:
"Mommy,herearesomesurprisepresents.Ifyoulisten,andlistenreallywell,you'llgetapresentattheendoftheday."
Iasked:"Willyoulisten?Listentomommyanddaddy?"
Shesaid:"No,it'snotjustformeandClara,it'sforeveryoneinthefamily.Everybodyhastolisten."
Isaid:"Listentowhom?"
Shecameoverandwhisperedinmyears:"Li...[阅读全文]
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(2012-12-19 09:14:05)
YesterdayLiyasuddenlyaskedme: "Mommy,sinceyou'reverysmart,canyoutellmewhatmyjobis?" Iwasspeechless.SoIdidwhatIusuallydotogetmyselfoutofthatsituation: "Whydon'tyoutellmewhatyouthink?" Shesaid:"Well,it'smyjobtolisten(toyou),butit'snotmyjobtolistenallthetime. It'smyjobtobenicetoClara,butit'snotmyjobtoshareallmytoys. It'smyjobtosay'Thankyouforcooki...[阅读全文]
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(2012-12-03 05:59:47)
Ihadanearlycallthismorning,soIsetthealarmclockat6am.Beforeitrang,Liyacameovertomybedroomandslippedundercover.Shewhisperedinmyear:"Mommy,isGodinvisible?"Stillhalfasleep,Iasked:"What?"Sherepeatedthequestion.NowIwasfullyawake,andsurprised:"Invisible?Wheredidyoulearnthatword?"Shesaid:"Ijustknow,Ihearditsomewhere.Itmeansyoucan'tseeit.SoisGodinvisible?"Ihesitated:"Err....yes."Shedidn'tsayanything,puttin...[阅读全文]
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(2012-11-12 18:06:57)

ThispostwasoriginallywrittenonOctober2nd,2012.
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Yesterday,outofhabitIaskedLiyatowashherhandsaftertoilet,sheimpatientlysaid:"Mommy!Don'ttellmetowashmyhands,Iknowthat!Justsay'Iloveyou',that'sallyouneedtosaytome!Iknoweverythingelsealready!"
Iwasstunned.
Ithoughtaboutourconversation2daysago,aboutthepassingofmygrandma.
Itoldherthatmygrandmadied....[阅读全文]
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(2012-11-12 17:38:17)
林老师是我小学一年级到六年级的语文老师兼班主任,她是家长心目中最好的老师:严格,对学生要求高,她带的毕业班升学率最好。
在80年代初的小学老师中,她是为数不多的正规大学毕业生,还写得一手好字。当时她五十多岁年纪,衣服永远整洁得体,又朴素大方,留着一头精干的短发,五官端正,看得出年轻时是个美人。她总是表情严肃,但偶尔也露出一丝慈爱的笑[阅读全文]
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(2012-11-11 19:40:19)

上周的万圣节,我们这里正是Sandy过后损失最严重的时候,99%的居民停电,到处一片狼藉。虽然不能出去要糖,白天还是给孩子们穿上服装拍照留念。
哪里蹦出个蜘蛛侠?(后面那个篮球架给吹倒了)
走近点看看:

摘下面具,甩下一头秀发(慢镜头),原来是个侠女!
看看身后那些吹倒的树,想想无家可归的灾民,ladybug愁眉不展
侠女说,我们去帮助他们[阅读全文]
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(2012-10-10 11:54:39)
我最早的有关痛苦的记忆,是四岁那年,和一个男孩子有关。
那时,爸爸妈妈刚把我从乡下的爷爷奶奶家接过来,当时我满口的乡下土话,能听懂但不会说城里话。我特别想念爷爷奶奶,每晚都哭着要坐船回家。当时,我家住在一个两栋两层楼的院落,里面有十几户人家,都是邮电局的职工和家属。
我现在都不记得他的名字,也不记得他的长相了。只知道他是住在院子[阅读全文]
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(2012-10-05 11:43:06)
我出生时,父母才23岁,现在看来还是大孩子呢。我是长房长孙女,又是父母双方家庭的第一个孩子,他们对我期望很高,兴奋之余,又觉得责任重大。于是请家里最有学问的一个长辈,爸爸的叔叔,给我取个名字。
那时,以鲁迅小说改变的话剧“铸剑“正在全国上演,叔爷爷刚刚去看过,印象深刻,他说:“是个女孩子?那就取个单名‘剑‘吧。“在他看来,剑不仅是把[阅读全文]
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(2012-10-04 14:07:47)
Iabsolutelylovedtowatchotherstudents'perform,andIfoundmyselfevenmorecuriousandeagertohearMichael'sview.He'slikethisold,grumpymanwho'sbeenthere,donethat,tastedhisshareofpain.Hecouldn'tcarelessabouttheworld,theonlythinghewashungryforistofeelanotherhumansoul.That'stheonlythingthatexciteshim.AndIfoundmyselfinthesameway.
Tome,connectingwiththeinnerworldofanotherhumanbeing,empathizingwiththeirpain,s...[阅读全文]
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