芝士火锅-一个人的独舞

春的脚步近了,园子里的花开的姹紫嫣红,想春是真的来了。四个女人,国内素未谋面,却相识相知在这芝士飘香的地方,也是一种缘。
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Some thoughts on Friends

(2007-03-21 14:03:42) 下一个

Feel so tired after getting home, but still want to open the blog and have a read if my dear friends have some new stories published. I am so happy that we have a place to talk and share about our lives, thoughts, happiness and sadness. Back home, I take friends for granted, never think about how important they are to me. After being alone thousands of miles away for years, I really appreciate how much friendship means to me. I couldn't help but thinking about the first two months when I was in London, staying in the youth hostel, going to the university during the day, and looking for accommodation after class. There was nobody beside me that I can talk to. Some nights I walked alone in the dark in Regent Park, trying to figure out what the hell am I doing here, leaving my family and friends behind? Some nights I wept in the room, hoping somebody can come to comfort me. That was almost 9 years ago. Now I can only smile when I think about it.

One by one, I got my friends. One by one, the life brought us apart again. That's how I interpret the friendship. Friends come and go, no one can promise we will keep in touch forever. But when we meet up one day at any corner in this world, we laugh, we jump, we talk and exchange each other's lives in the past years. We may look older, but nothing has changed between us no matter what has happened on each of us.

Funny enough, it is always difficult to make friends with the citizens of the country I domiciled. I only made two good English friends in the very last year when I was in
London and so far, I haven't made any Swiss friends either. Thinking about in China, every Lao Wai has lots of Chinese friends, why the opposite can not be true for us? Puzzled, zzzzzzz

Went to Gym lunch time and now I can feel the muscles. Though tired, still felt happy that I did some sports, otherwise I just sit doing nothing at all.

Oh, tomorrow is Thursday again, how time flies!!! Really hope I have a time machine.


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wonderbibi 回复 悄悄话 I feel same, so happy and lucky that i met you three and got to know you three. Still remember the 1st time met maidou, xiaodai and qianxun, it was like yesterday!
wonderbibi 回复 悄悄话 我同意。我也很高兴能在瑞士认识你们,可以谈得无拘无束。

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wonderbibi 回复 悄悄话 I could understand your feeling.
but, when it's real friends,the time even the distance can't apart us, wherever you have been, friends will always in your heart.
--XiaoDai
wonderbibi 回复 悄悄话 很伤感,想到了自己刚到圣地亚哥时的情景。虽然在瑞士生活时间挺长了,要真的问起知心的瑞士朋友,不怕笑话,数也数的出来的那么一个两个,而且还是同事关系发展起来的。

所以麦兜我真的很开心,能够认识你们。
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