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To me, there is really no point in dating someone unless you are seriously considering marrying them. The ures are quite clear about being unequally yoked, so you wouldn\'t want to marry someone that isn\'t a Christian; therefor there seems to be no point in dating a non-Christian. No problem with being friends, though!

Just my two cents worth...


Back when I was single I actually had this debate with a friend of mine, when I told her that one of my requirements was that he had to be a Christian.

Dating is different than a friendship - it has the potential to lead to marriage. And when it comes to marriage, the Bible is clear - we are not to be unequally yoked to unbelievers (2 Cor 6:14). I have seen a lot of heartache in Christian friends who had unbelieving spouses (most got married before they became a Christian). If you are a Christian you should only date (or court, as some prefer) another Christian.

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A Cord of Three Stands is Not Easily Broken

I am now a Mrs! Married January 15, 2005.


To me, there is really no point in dating someone unless you are seriously considering marrying them. The ures are quite clear about being unequally yoked, so you wouldn\'t want to marry someone that isn\'t a Christian; therefor there seems to be no point in dating a non-Christian. No problem with being friends, though!

Just my two cents worth...

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He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. ~ Jim Elliott

That\'s a good question and one that I have struggled with too. Part of the reason why my ex boyfriend and I broke up is because I got saved and our relationship just stopped being...together. It was weird b/c I never looked at him and said, I can\'t date you b/c you aren\'t a Christian, it just kind of happened. We stopped having things in common and stopped agreeing on things. That wasn\'t the only reason but it was part of it.

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 2 Cor 6:14

I\'ve tried to rationalize it before and say well maybe if we date someone that is a \'good person\' then I can have a positive influence on them and they will be saved or something like that but its in plain black and white in the bible that we are not to do that. As Christians we are charged with winning souls for Christ but not at the expense of our own. If we start dating someone that is not a christian then their morals and values may be different than ours and, as much as we want to change them, it will inevitably change us instead. So no matter how much I rationalize it, I can\'t refute the fact that God tells us in plain english what we should do. And its not always easy but it will always turn out better. Dating is hard enough without making it more difficult than it has to be. When I think about it I think how much better it would be to date someone that believes the same as I do so that is one less thing that I have to worry about. Plus you know that you will always have that support when you need it b/c your significant other will always know what you are going through.
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I belive it\'s not the right thing to do. But if I was in a relationship and was not a beliver then became saved while my girlfriend wasn\'t id do my best to introduce them to god and help them get saved. Next time I date, it will be with a woman that is a christain.


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I feel strongly that we should not knowingly date non-christians. I say that having married a christian man - and never having dated a real christian before. In retrospect, I realize how difficult it was and how easily swayed I was when dating non christians. My husband and I study the Word together, pray together, & bring up our children in a Christian household. My husband is like a teacher to me - he is more versed in the Word, and assists me in my journey. I can say, to sum it up, it will be much easier, and you will be greatly blessed to marry/date a fellow Christian.