读书如交友

散文：读书如交友 作者：刘墉 　　　读书就像交朋友，有些书略略翻过即可，是点头之交；有些书必须精读细读，是知心至交；又有些书得再三玩味，十分迷醉，如爱侣。 　　　总之，书不能由别人帮你读，朋友不能由旁人为你交，只有自己认识的朋友，一朝重逢，才能有许多惊喜；困境相遇，才能得许多助益。为善不求福报，福报自来；读书不为功名，功名自至。 ******** 《萤窗小语》 　　　刘墉从事写作近30年，素以雅致、细腻的文风闻名于世。《读书如交友》选自《萤窗小语》，是刘墉的成名作，同时也是“影响了我一生的书”（刘墉语）。这是一本心灵散文合集。 　　　刘墉用细腻、睿智的笔触，记录日常的点滴感触和心得。那些蕴含智慧与哲理的小语，教会世人如何面对喧嚣、摆脱困顿，感觉亲切而真实。 　　　作品中也充满了刘墉年轻时的理想主义，刘墉曾表示，一种年纪有一种年纪的状态和思考方式，这本书就记录了刘墉年轻时的思想转变过程。（摘自网络） 林贝卡 2008 夏 于美国

[林贝卡]

回复静谧海湾的评论:

Tell you what? I even do not remember what I have posted. Yesterday I noticed that I posted the same piece of music twice. lol...When I am in the mood for posting, I just post a bunch.

Oh, 《Anna Karenina》,the novel begins with one of its most quoted lines:

“ Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. ”

How are you doing? I hope everything goes well with your family.

Have a nice day,

Rebecca

[静谧海湾]

回复林贝卡的评论:

What you said is so right, I feel the same. Great minds think alike(?) lol...

The picture is here:
http://blog.wenxuecity.com/blogview.php?date=200807&postID=32169

It took me a while to find it finally - That is the only time I don't want you have so many beautiful posts. Wish I could have more time to enjoy each one quiltly...

The full name is "Anna Karenina" by Leo Tolstoy. You have a post about movie and I watched some of it but did not finish that evening...

A good mum should know Daniel, little Tony and Cisco as well... How happy you are!

Enjoy your day,

[林贝卡]

回复静谧海湾的评论:

是的，不同的阶段读相同的一本书一篇文章一首诗，听同一首歌曲等，感受就是不一样。人生的体验随着不断地成长，不同的经历，就这样丰富了，多彩了，厚重了。

记得在国内读席慕容的《乡愁》，是在欣赏；如今再读《乡愁》，是在感受。

乡愁
席慕容

故乡的歌是一枝清远的笛
总在有月亮的晚上响起
故乡的面貌确实一种模糊的怅惘
仿佛雾里的挥手别离
别离后
乡愁是一颗没有年轮的树
永不老去

By the way, what is the novel 《Anna》 about? Speaking of reading, it reminds me of my kids. During dinner time last evening, I commented on my two girls who like to read whenever they can. Daniel jumped in and said:" Mommy, I have read a lot of books, too. You just did not see me reading." lol...

Have a nice day,

Rebecca

[静谧海湾]

I like 刘墉's articles you shared.

Forgot to tell you, a beautiful lady's picture in your post let me think of Anna, so I took the novel from my book shelf and started reading it again recently.

I read it in Chinese in uni. With so many life experience and story I felt the difference when reading it. It is so enjoyable.

Thank you and enjoy your rest of the week,

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