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(2025-08-28 08:12:19)
人行善，往往不免带着一丝小人的心思：盼望好报。阅读全文]
(2025-08-27 19:54:39)
在人生的长河里，我们常常感到一种熟悉的节律：走远了、偏了，忽然又被某种力量召回，让我们归返最初的心意。那一瞬间，如同冬雷隐隐，告诉我们——生命需要一次新的开始。《复卦》正是这样的一种启示：下卦震为雷，象征内心的觉醒与萌动；上卦坤为地，象征外在的承载与顺应。它提醒我们：真正的转变，并非源于外力的逼迫，而是源于内在声音被听见、被尊[阅读全文]
(2025-08-26 13:11:44)
我们来看《易经》第23卦——剥卦（艮上坤下），如何对你在行为、思想、为人处世方面提供指导。我会从内外因和事业、家庭、健康、人际关系、灵性成长五个角度切入，避免空泛说教，而是揭示这卦在现实中的精微用处。一、卦象核心：剥 艮为山在上，坤为地在下：山在大地之上，本应稳固，但地渐被剥蚀，根基失守。 象义：外部环境似乎在剥落、退化，支持的[阅读全文]
(2022-04-09 20:36:40)
Listeningisacombinationofhearingwhatanotherpersonsaysandinvolvementwiththepersonwhoistalking.Listeningskillsincludethreeskillclusters: attendingskills:seemypreviousblog followingskills:thisblog reflectingskills:nextblogTheskillsofusingdooropeners,minimalencourages,openquestions,andattentivesilenceenablethelistenertokeepthefocusonthespearker'scommnuncation.Inyesterday'sblog,wetalkabouthowto...[阅读全文]
(2022-04-08 20:56:53)
Dooropenersexamples: Lookslikethingsdidn'tgowellforyoutoday.I'vegottimeifyou'dliketotalk. Somethingunpleasanthappentoyou?Wanttotalkaboutit? Youdon'tseemyourselfthesepastfewdays.Youseemburdenedbysomething.Caretotalkaboutit?Fourelementsofdooropeners: adescriptionoftheotherpersonsbodylanguage-"youlooklikeyouarenotfeelinguptopar." aninvitationtotalkortocontinuetalking-"p...[阅读全文]
(2022-04-07 19:55:30)
Myunhappymindwasabattlefieldofconflicteddemons.AsImademydecisiontospendtendaysaloneandinsilenceinthemiddleofexactlynowhere,Itoldallmywarringandconfusedpartsthesamething:“We’reallheretogethernow,guys,allalone.Andwe’regoingtohavetoworkoutsomekindofdealforhowtogetalong,orelseeverybodyisgoingtodietogether,soonerorlater.”Ihadn’tevenbroughtanybookstoread,nothingtodistractme...[阅读全文]
(2022-04-07 19:08:46)
OnesunnydayIwaslamentingmymiserablelifeonthesofawithacupofteainmyhand.Myhusbandstartedtoeducateme."youshouldbegrateful.youforgothowhappyyouwerewhenyoureceivedthejoboffer.youearnedmorethanthescientistinourcompany.hehastwoPhD......"Myangerroaredinsideofme.Istartedtoyellathim:"begratefulforwhat?doyouknoweveryclientofmineearn1000timesmorethanwecombinedtogether?whycan'tyouearnmore?wh...[阅读全文]
(2022-04-06 17:49:57)
Lifeisboileddowntooneword-relationship.Thequalityoflifedependsonthequalityofrelationship. relationshipwithyourownbody,mindandheart relationshipwithfamilyandfriends relationshipwithcoworkersandclients relationshipwithworkandhobby relationshipwithmoneyandpossessions relationshipwithGodanduniversallaws relationshipwithyourenvironmentandtheuniverseThemomentyouhaveyourideaof"want"and"don...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-30 18:44:55)
Destiny,Ifeel,isalsoarelationship—aplaybetweendivinegraceandwillfulself-effort.Halfofityouhavenocontrolover;halfofitisabsolutelyinyourhands,andyouractionswillshowmeasurableconsequence.Manisneitherentirelyapuppetofthegods,norisheentirelythecaptainofhisowndestiny;he’salittleofboth.Thefurnaceatmyhomedoesnotworkforalmostamonth.Ididnotfeelitwhentheweatherwaswarm.IdidnotrealizeitwhenIfeltfro...[阅读全文]
(2022-03-22 19:44:25)
"MyfriendslistentowhatIsay,butmyparentsonlyhearmetalk"Perhapswehavehadasimilarexperienceandknowhowfrustratingitcanbetobeheardaccuratelybysomeonewhoisn'tlisteningwithunderstanding.Effectivelisteningisthecombinationofhearingwhattheotherpersonsaysandasuspensefulwaiting,anintensepsychologicalinvolvementwiththeother.Attendingskills:attendingisnonverbalcommunicationthatindicatesthatyouarep...[阅读全文]
