(attributedto)CharlieChaplinonhis70thbirthday:AsIBegantoLoveMyself
AsIbegantolovemyselfIfoundthatanguishandemotionalsufferingareonlywarningsignsthatIwaslivingagainstmyowntruth.
Today,Iknow,thisis“AUTHENTICITY“.
AsIbegantolovemyselfIunderstoodhowmuchitcanoffendsomebodyasItrytoforcemydesiresonthisperson,eventhoughIknewthetimewasnotrightandthepersonwasnotreadyforit,an...[
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4月25日,婆婆去世。这是我在她的葬礼上的发言。
IfirstmetNanny11yearsagointhebayareaattendingScotty'sgraduation.IrememberIwasnervousbeforemeetingherasIknewin-lawrelationshipscanbetough.Butwehititoffrightaway.Shewasfunny,smartandgood-tempered.Shehadabigheartandlovedagoodlaugh,justlikeherson,theoneIfellinlovewith.ShetoldmetocallherNanny.Ididn'tunderstanduntillaterthatsheisNanny,sheist...[
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AfriendrecommendedtheMasterbyColmToibintomewhenItoldherIreallyenjoyedreadingTheHoursatthebeginningoftheyear.Thetwonovelshavesomethingincommoninthatbothareaboutthelifeofanovelist(HenryJamesandVirginiaWoolfrespectively)butneitherisamemoir.Theyarefictionalstoriesbasedonthelivesofrealpeople.
InthemiddleofreadingtheHours,Iwasirritated,thinking,MichaelCunninghamwasstereotypingthethreewomen.Howcouldh...[
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Icametothisforumabout2yearsagotoworkonmypronunciation.Ihadthegoodfortuneofbeinghelpedby小千andmanyothers,inadditiontoattendingsomeprivateorgroupaccentreductionclasses(Icanelaborateonthemlaterifyouareinterested).
Nowmorethantwoyearshaspassed.WhenIsawyourquestionjustnow,Icouldn'thelpthinkingaboutmyencounterwithamuchyoungerguy(let'scallhimSamfornow)whoisnowlivinginChinaandhasn'tbeentot...[
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又感冒乐,趁机读一下前一段练的这个段子。欢迎指点指正!
Ibelieveintheinfinitevarietyofhumanexpression.Igrewupinthreecultures.IwasborninParis,myparentswerefromChinaandIwasbroughtupmostlyinAmerica.WhenIwasyoung,thiswasveryconfusing.Everyonesaidthattheirculturewasbest.ButIknewtheycouldn'tallberight.IfeltthattherewasanexpectationthatIwouldchoosetobeChineseorFrenchorAmerican.Formanyyears,Ibouncedamo...[
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Again,mymemoryisfailingme.Idon’trememberwhenexactlythishappened.ItwasprobablyaboutayearagowhenLiyawas3yearsold.Iwaschangingclothesandshesawmyc-sectionscar.IhadconsideredthescarunsightlyandhadthoughtaboutgettingsomethingcalledScarawayhealingsheetstoeraseitbutnevergotthetimetodoso.WhatLiyasaidatthattimetotallychangedmyperspective.Shesaid:“Mommy,youhaveasmileyface!Yournipplesaretheeyes.Yo...[
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一直想写写小时候落下的一个伤疤,2011年的时候写过一个开头,后来就撂下了。最近不知道为什么这个伤疤老被揭起,或者是因为自己的年龄越来越接近当时我妈妈的年龄了,也或者是我儿子的年龄到了我当时的年龄了,也未可知,总之最近一个月有两次回想起这一幕都泪流满面,今天终于趁孩子午睡的时候写下一点儿,算是给自己疗伤吧。还没写完,但是找了找以前写[
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IattendedaToastmastersSpeechContestyesterday.Thisspeech"Undeniable"isthebestspeechIhaveeverheardinperson.ThespeakerisanABC.IwastearingupandthoughtitwasbecauseIcouldrelateasaChinese.ButwhenIlookedaround,manypeoplewerethesame.Someweresniffling,somewerewipingawaytheirtears,somewereinworseshapethanme.Iguesseveryonecouldrelate.ThespeakerisgoingtoCincinnati,OhioinAugustforthefinalcontest.Iwish...[
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IfirstknewofRogerEbert,probably,intheyearof1999whenIfirstcametoSouthernCaliforniaforgraduatestudies.Inthemidstof“Friends”reruns,watchingEbertandRoeperarguingaboutmovieswasnotarelaxingpastime.Tofullyunderstandtheirpointswouldhaverequiredalittlemoreattentionfromme.Idon’tknowhowmuchIunderstoodtheirbanteratthattime,probablyabout50%,thesamepercentageIunderstandChineseWeibotweetsnowada...[
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