Iwasaskedonceiftherewastrueloveintheworld.Myanwerwasyes.Then,IwasaskedhowIwouldknowifitwasmytruelove.Myanswerwas"youknowwhenitcomes".
Maybeitshouldbedefinedaspassionwhich,accordingtosomescientists,islinkedtocertainchemicalsinthebodyandwouldonlylastfor4months.Truelovecouldmakeapersonstupid,losingcontrol,inpulsiveandemotional.Itistotalysweet,excitingandinspiring.Youwouldsmilethinkingabouthimandf...[
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TodayisSep11.Adaytorememberwhathappenedtenyearsago.
IwasawayfrommyfamilyonSep11,2001.Graduatingfromthebusinessschoolandreportingtoworkinthatfall,Iwasexcitedaboutthebrightcareerinthefuture.TheconsultingcompanyfliedmeandalltheirMBAnewhiresfromallofficestoDallas,TXfortheorientationweekstartingSep11.IleftontheSundaySep10.Monday,Sep11,atbreakfast,IgotsomewordsthattherewasanaccidentinNYC.Ididnotpaym...[
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死有重于泰山,有轻于鸿毛,今天想说说轻于鸿毛,升斗小民的死,也可带给人震撼,不过是在电影里。
Therearemanytragediescausedbythenature.However,theworstcases,themostheartbrokenstunningones,werealmostalwayscausedbyhumanbeingstoourselves.Ihavetobelievethatwhilethereareangelseverywhere,theremustalsobeevilswalkin...[
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遇上不舒心的事,特想吐槽,在自己的博客写下,也算找到个树洞,不碍着谁。认识蛮长时间的一个人,觉得还算了解,最近正好有个项目,是我找来上家,他能找到下家,他在中国,我在美国,各有所长,都有兴趣,就说一块做吧。结果才两个星期,就没法继续,谈不拢。我十多年来都是以美国方式做我的职业经理,第一,相信规章制度,大家如果谈好了合约,除非有理由[
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某日开车经过一大学校园,迎面走来四个男孩,大声笑闹着,看上去都是学生的样子。天气不是很热,其中两个却赤着上身,白白净净,宽肩窄腰,有胸肌,有腹肌,或者说二十岁的美少年该有的都有,不该有的都没有。恰好路很窄,又碰上个红灯,正好慢慢看了,在心中赞了一回,转过头去问车上另一个美女:看小帅哥唉,要不要吹个口哨给他们。不想,那一位瞪大眼睛,[
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看见一片很好的博文,有关中医中药的,有一些联想。
虽然自己学的是西医,挣的是西药的钱,我一直是中医中药的信徒。就象宗教一样,与不信的人谈论中药中医很难,哪怕奇迹发生,病人康复,也是原来误诊或者心理作用。想想也是,做新药临床试验,给对照组喝水都有把生命延长的,哪来的什么神迹。与信的人谈,什么都可以发生,包治百病,没有中药不能的,要不[
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没有儿子,只有一个可爱的女儿,性格却完完全全不像我,即是她本性,也是后天环境所就。对于有没有明天这种问题,14岁的她,是不会纠结的,纠结的是我。四十年起起伏伏,经历人生各种滋味,却依然时时“惑”而不已的我,是理性又感性的老妈,看懂时值青春无敌天真少女的梦想,困惑,快乐和不耐真不是一件难事。所谓代沟不过是拿来搪塞的词,用了心,生命成长的[
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Istanbulisaconnectingplaceofthewesternandtheeastern.IimagineditbeingverymuchaMuslimcitybeforeIarrivedforabusinessmeeting.Itshowedmeitsmultiplefacetsquiteblendedwithbothwesternandeasterninfluences.IwasimmersedintheuniqueTurkeyculture.BlueMosqueIstayedontheEuropeansideofthecity,thepartwheremostvisitorsstayed.BuildingsweremostlyindistinguishablefromothermodemEuropeancities,exceptthosemosques.Imanaged...[
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ItsurprisesmewhenIreadinthenewsthatover40%respondentsofasurveysaid“yes”whentheywereaskediftheyeverhadofficeromanceexperience.Toqualify“officeromance”inthesurvey,ithastoinvolvesexualactivities.Thatisamazinglyhigh.Thinkingaboutmymanagerhas3peopleincludingme.IknowIneverhadtheexperience,whichwouldput1-2ofmythreeclosecolleaguesintotheYescategory.Iseriouslydoubtthatthesurveyonlyincludedyounghardwork...[
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Icausedquiteafamilyfouljustdaysintomymarriage.Itoldmynewlymintedmother-in-lawthatitwashardformetocallhermom.Onlyonespecialwomancouldbecalled“mom”bymeinthisworld.Imeantnomalicetomymotherinlaw.Itwasjusthonesty,toomuchhonesty.Mymotheriscompassionateandmostlovingmotherwhoisliterallywillingtogiveherlifeawayforherkidsifneeded.Someofthepopulartheoriestodayhavethedatatoprovethattheenvironmentofachild’s...[
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