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lunamia:送给你一片紫丁香

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送给你一片紫丁香



雪化了, 化为水融进了土壤,我仿佛看到漫山遍野长出了紫色的小花,带着淡淡的花香,花瓣上晶莹透剔,如融化了的雪水又似含笑的泪珠。。。

因为雪的奉献, 从此,年年岁岁,家门口都能看到丁香树,看到丁香花, 闻着花香。。。

永远,永远地感谢你,祝福你。。。



你说你最爱丁香花, 因为你的名字就是它,
多么忧郁的花, 多愁善感的人啊,
当花儿枯萎的时候, 当画面定格的时候,
多么娇嫩的花, 却躲不过风吹雨打,
飘啊摇啊的一生, 多少美丽编织的梦啊,
就这样匆匆你走啦, 留给我一生牵挂,
那坟前开满鲜花是你多么渴望的美啊,
你看那漫山遍野, 你还觉得孤单吗?
你听那有人在唱那首你最爱的歌谣啊,
尘世间多少繁芜, 从此不必再牵挂.
院子里栽满丁香花, 开满紫色美丽的鲜花,
我在这里陪着她, 一生一世保护她.


(By Lunamia)



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Harbingirl 回复 悄悄话 Mr.Baliao,

Thank you for your reply. It's very nice to learn that Mr.
Cao Ying and his wife are doing well. Hope Mr.Cao Ying and
his wife have a healthy and long life.

As I respect Mr.Cao Ying very mcuh and happened to learn
that you know Mr.Cao Ying very well, so I mentioned that I visited him once and happened to meet him again, when Mr.Cao Ying came to Beijing for a conference and visited Mr.Jiang Cun Fang's wife, Zhang An Ying and Mr.Jiang Cun Fang's family. I know that the friendship between Mr. Cao
Ying and Jiang Cun Fang lasts more than 50 years. Mr.Jiang
Cun Fang is the father of Chinese Encyclopedia and he was
a very nice and respectable person, he cared and helped
everyone as much as he can and I saw how Mr.Jiang Cun Fang
cared and helped all other people, while he was not in
good health himself(he worked so hard and damaged his eyes
so much and could not see very well, had to have an
operation on the eye and unfotunately found cancer later
in 1987 and so soon passed away on December 1987.

. Mr. Jiang Cun Fang had a big family, but on that cold
and sad day of January 1988 in Beijing, about 3000 people--
a lot of famous people and also a lot of ordinary people, young or old attended his funeral.


Me and my hasband live in Missouri. like to be young, so
call myself Harbin Girl(was born in Harbin). So feel more sad for Mr.Daxue. Hope Xuesao and her son will pass this
difficult period with more care and love from family and friends.


Best wishes and take care.

罢了 回复 悄悄话 谢谢Luna、闲人两位老朋友的留言。 欢迎新朋友gq,终有一天我们都会返回到我们来的地方,希望我们离去的时候心中充满安宁。

回复哈尔滨姑娘:我刚从中国探亲回来,才看到你的留言,迟复为歉。 我和草婴夫妇有二十多年的交情,每年回国都会去探望他们。 这次回国我曾多次拜访草婴夫妇,不但在他们家吃了大闸蟹和鲥鱼,也请他们两夫妇与外孙一起去饭店吃了饭。 八十一岁的草婴太太身体还不错,不过八十六岁的草婴行走已不太方便,但在总体上还算过得去。 姜椿芳是草婴走向革命的领路人,常听草婴说起他。 从你的网名上看,你应该生活在哈尔滨吧?大雪也是哈尔滨人,所以看到你的网名感到很亲切。 很高兴认识你。
Harbingirl 回复 悄悄话 Best regards to you and have a nice trip, Mr.Baliao.

From Lunamia and her lilac I learned that Mr.Daxue passed away and he came from Harbin(Lilac is city flower of Harbin) and now read most of Mr.Daxue's articles and poems
and yours as well. Mr.Daxue and you are a good-natured men at heart and very inlelligent.

It's a little surprise that you know Mr.Cao Ying--I met him twice--once at his house in Shanghai(Summer 1987, one of Mr.Cao Ying's friend Mr.Geng Yong, real name is Zheng Bing Zhong, took me to visit Mr.Cao Ying. It's very sad that Mr.Geng Yong passed away this year at the age of 86)and the second time at Mr.Jiang Cun Fang's house(Spring, 1994, while Mr.Cao Ying came and visited Mr.Jiang Cun Fang's wife and I visited her at the same time and met Mr.Cao Ying again).

Best regards and have a nice trip.
gq 回复 悄悄话 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." ( Matthew 11:28-30)

凡劳苦担重担的人,可以到我这里来,我就使你们得安息。 ( 马太 11:28-30)
lunamia 回复 悄悄话 记下这个日子了,我也会与了哥两地同悼念大雪兄的。

一路平安。。。
闲人Filiz 回复 悄悄话 同悼念。
罢了 回复 悄悄话 十月十八日是大雪最后一个七七忌日。 大雪信耶稣,我也不信佛,记住它是因为传统,也是为了为思念找个容器。 明天我将回国,本来说好一起去的,可是现在成了“一人行”,怎不令人神伤! 那一天我将在中国,所以,借一束Luna的丁香花,提早献给大雪,以此寄托我深深的哀思与想念。。。
自砚字语 回复 悄悄话 适逢中秋,这首幽婉的歌更让人想家。看了罢了的留言,更觉人对“花好月圆”的无能为力!

但愿花常好月常圆吧!谢谢卢娜!

顺至中秋快乐!
罢了 回复 悄悄话 罢了 评论于:2008-08-29 10:05:47 [回复评论]
今年五月在去Luna家的路上,我们看到一片美丽的紫丁香。大雪告诉我们他最喜欢紫丁香,Luna说来年会给他寄一些紫丁香的籽,如今人已去,而紫丁香依然每年开着。。。。

听到这首“丁香花”的歌,使我想起我在网友未予“丁香花”文章后的留言,我把它搬到这里作为对大雪的缅怀:

“相逢是缘的开始,相分是缘的尽头,缘既不可强求,也不能抗拒,只能顺其自然。缘可分宿缘、姻缘、旧缘、众缘,走完这些缘,最后才了尘缘。当一种缘尽时,告别没有背影。

有时候,我们在相逢的站台告别,目送着那人的背影在人流中时隐时现,最终淹没在视线之外。 那样的时候,我想,我们心里更多的不是伤心,而是无法填补的空白。

是啊,一朵盈满柔情的花就这样便在瞬间凋逝了;一个深情的季节,你还来不及挥手,它已经远去;那点点滴滴的感受,你还没来得及细想和追忆,春秋轮回已是四季。

曾经沧海终是难以为水,除却巫山依然不见白云。 天涯地角虽有穷时,绵绵相思却无尽处。

我虽然不知道丁香花的故事,但我却有过丁香花的心情,这人生事欲说还休,不说也罢!”
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