随着孩子们一天天的长大，我们也携手进入了人生的后半程！她的生日、我的生日也过得一年比一年凝重。。。平时的年份过生日，总有张张罗罗绞尽脑汁给她买生日礼物、买玫瑰、订蛋糕，最后全家找一可心幽静之处大餐庆贺一下！今年不同了，如火如荼的疫情下出门购物实在让人纠结和胆战心惊，所有饭店关门美餐一顿更是成为泡影。。尽管如此，俺还是决定送给孩子妈两件生日礼物。。

第一件是一首歌。随着年龄增加对爱有了更深层次的理解和诠释！我特别喜欢美国老一代乡村音乐大家Don Williams的一首歌：you're my best friend。说起中国的爱情歌曲，基本都是少年少女专属！很难找到或没有那种表达结婚后的爱情歌曲，更别提老夫老妻的爱情歌曲啦！！可Don Williams写的这首歌却让我如痴如醉，他对孩子妈的爱的表达那么实在也那么真切。。。和我一起听吧，顺便仔细体会一下歌词！

https://youtu.be/SQDWayLiOEE

You placed gold on my finger
You brought love like I'd never known
You gave life to our children
And to me a reason to go on。

You're my bread when I'm hungry
You're my shelter from troubled winds
You're my anchor in life's ocean
But most of all, you're my best friend！

When I need hope and inspiration
You're always strong

when I'm tired and weak
I could search this whole world over
You'd still be everything that I need

You're my bread when I'm hungry
You're my shelter from troubled winds
You're my anchor in life's ocean
But most of all you're my best friend