俺还清楚地记得，大娃中学时跟俺说:"I just want to be an average person and have an average life."

昨天二娃在车里告诉俺:"I don't want to be some random guy and be forgotten after I died.  I want to make some difference in the world."

作为家长，这俩孩子的表白都让俺不轻松。遗憾大娃指向不够高远，担心二娃包袱太重。。。