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“You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.”


“No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.”


“Difficult times always create opportunities for you to experience more love in your life.”


“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.”


“The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.”


“Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible, it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.”



“Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.”