I wish I knew then what I know now … about myself. 知己知彼百战不怠。And it should really be made public knowledge that the first part – know thyself – is the harder of the two tasks. 至少敌人是在山外,没有乌云碍眼的时候总可以窥得一二。 而自己永远是 biased。并且 emotional。并且千变万化。刚刚觉得对自己了解得多了一点 BAM 一切都变了还要从头想起。 天性没办法违背。不喜欢自己的地方也要承认。如果假装的话到头来辛苦的还是自己。 所以不如 accept the imperfection and make peace with it。 And here’s the kicker – how come I didn’t get a user’s manual of myself when I was born? Unfair. |