最近有一两年的时间,经常有人伸出大拇指和我说我这个爹当的很成功,我知道他们的意思是两个层面,第一个层面是我这么多年来一直带孩子打网球,孩子进步很快,水平也不低,奖牌奖杯拿到手软,在全国也是名列前茅。第二个层面是女儿中学毕业后大学上了大藤,算是在求学方面有一定成就的那种,因此,我也就变成了成功的爹。 ![Coach Xavier 對你來說,成功的定義是什麼? - Pivot and TrimTab coach](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT4nnbIbZob-fszF7qWl2omy6ggxHXjUuPd-g&usqp=CAU) ![Coach Xavier 對你來說,成功的定義是什麼? - Pivot and TrimTab coach](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT4nnbIbZob-fszF7qWl2omy6ggxHXjUuPd-g&usqp=CAU)
当然,我也看到有很多人在说,你看谁谁谁,人家孩子上的是什么什么名校,人家孩子在哪里哪里工作,人家的孩子每年的年薪是多少多少,人家这爹妈当的,多么的成功呀! ![从包里赚了很多钱库存图片. 图片包括有财务, 背包, 工资, 商业, 班珠尔, 广告牌, 查出, 诱饵- 172778231](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQQg42EAlRMUF4waxpYYY2weIJckVDdWArpZg&usqp=CAU)
我有的时候就在想,父母的成功是在于孩子读什么样的学校还是孩子毕业后挣多少钱?是不是孩子读的学校越好,父母就越成功还是孩子挣的钱越多父母就越成功? 我觉得不是,因为我有一个亲身经历。 我女儿小的时候打网球,有一个在一起打网球的小师姐叫惠特尼,她打网球起步比我女儿早,当时打的也比我女儿好很多。因为都在一个网球俱乐部,从师于同一个网球教练,也在一个小学后来是一个中学读书,所以关系也特别好。有一次我们应邀去她家里玩,一进人家的门,我们就被震住了:人家屋子里除了有若干个网球比赛冠军的奖杯,还有几十个不同种类和不同样子的奖牌和奖杯。我就问惠特尼,这些都是什么奖杯奖牌呀?人家惠特尼还没有张口,惠妈就介绍了:这个是数学竞赛的冠军奖牌,这个是吉他的奖牌,那个是钢琴比赛的冠军,这个是合唱团的比赛奖牌,那个是跆拳道的段位奖牌,这个是小提琴的决赛奖牌,那个是足球的冠军奖牌 。。。。。。 ![职业奖杯psd素材下载-信息图文欣赏-信息村-K0W0M.COM](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRwhySkbsFO-MRrNQ9AFNICAl-X0Mi0VLIE3g&usqp=CAU)
如数家珍呀,这些奖牌奖杯林林总总的,显示出惠特尼这个小姑娘真的是无所不能,无所不会,无所不精呀。惠妈惠爸也是一脸的骄傲。 ![Online courses from University of California, Berkeley](https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQYTNVp4HPhMZxAkqFLDjwZgqiGgwmtgRIAUQ&usqp=CAU)
光阴荏苒,惠特尼长大了,上了大学,上的也是在美国排名前一、二十名的大学。离家不远不近,飞机一个来小时就到家了。 有一天我遇到了惠特尼的弟弟惠别尼,就聊了一会儿,你爸爸怎么样?你妈妈怎么样?你姐姐怎么样?惠别尼说,我爸爸OK, 我妈妈OK, 我姐姐自从上了大学就再也没有回来过,已经有两年多了,我爸爸妈妈过年过节叫她回来她也不回来。 这个就聊不下去了,惠特尼上大学之后两年都不回家,估计惠特尼和她父母的关系不好。 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听了这个消息之后,我觉得,父母的成功并不是孩子上什么呀的学校,也不是孩子毕业之后有什么呀的工作,挣多少钱。父母的成功是能够一直和孩子保持良好的关系。除了是父母和子女关系之外,还是朋友,知音,至交。 在父母和子女的关系这一点上,我觉得我是一个比较成功的父亲。和女儿的关系一直都特别的好。虽然她小的时候我是虎爸,但是,我一直能够和她保持很好的关系和融洽的气氛,我还是比较成功的。有人说我的情商很高,我觉得我的智商和我的体重一样,我的情商估计也低不到哪儿去。 大约有一半的家庭都存在着父母和子女关系紧张的问题,有的家庭的父母和子女的关系非常紧张以至于到了反目成仇的地步。能够和长大成人后的子女保持很好关系的父母,都是情商非常高的父母。而一直能够和子女保持良好关系的父母,那就是成功的父母。 《版权个人意见所有,翻印请勿参考不究》 |