从理论上来讲,每一对父母在教育孩子方面都是生手,不论父母是在中国还是在美国,都没有什么经验。因此,很多父母都在学习怎么教育孩子,怎么培养孩子。当然了,培养孩子也有很多理论:什么男孩子要穷养,女孩子要富养,什么情况下圈养,什么情况下散养,什么情况下放养,对于什么样的孩子应该虎,对待什么样的孩子应该熊等等等等,不同的人有不同的经验。那些有成功经验的父母当然就趾高气昂了,嘴里经常会念叨:我的经验就是吧啦吧啦吧啦,但是那是有失败经验的父母就那么不嚣张了:我的孩子与众不同,成功的标准不同吧啦吧啦吧啦。
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反正,每个家长都有自己的教育理论,每个家长也有自己对孩子成功的理解,没有一个标准答案!
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散养也要有!
管它培养孩子成功不成功,我都我自己教育孩子的理念,那就是:孩子青春期前要圈养,但是进了青春期就要散养了。
我的孩子在青春期之前,我绝对是以一个虎爸的形象出现的:做事情要认真,要努力,要一丝不苟。对老师教练家长长辈要尊敬,要守规矩、重道德、而且一定要善良。每天在上学的路上,都要给孩子谈世界,讲道理,晚上睡觉的时候,也给孩子讲故事,说哲理。带孩子去训练比赛,所有的项目事必亲恭:准备网球、球拍、球鞋、袜子、衣服、球包、水、防晒霜、毛巾、零食、跳绳、皮筋、实心球一样都不能少,每一项都要让孩子看着,记在心里。让她在得到精心呵护的同时逐渐培养她独立自主的精神。
孩子进入青春期,我这个虎爸就变成熊爸了。我告诉她:你已经长大了,所有我以前为你做的事情现在都是你自己应该做的了。这个时候,教育模式就从圈养模式进入散养模式,就拿网球的训练和比赛来说:不但参加训练的球拍、球鞋服装等等都是她自己来准备了,而且她的比赛报名、对手研究、场地勘察、排名对比,酒店机票、租车吃饭都要她自己来亲手来做。我有一个想法就是:早自立,早成才!所以,我女儿十三岁之后,很多事情都是她自己拿主意了。
进入高中之后,所有的选课,上课时间都是她自己安排,所有的考试测验,都是她自己安排。什么时候考SAT,什么时候考ACT,什么时候考 Subject, 上什么大学选什么学校,她自己做主。上大学写申请、撺掇论文、找人写推荐信全部都是她自己安排,我从不插手。实习、面试的所有准备,也都是孩子自己安排。如果她问我,我会给出我的想法和建议,至于怎么样实施,她自己决定。上了大学之后读什么专业,她自己根据自己的兴趣、爱好和这个专业的前途,自己安排。(看了紫檀里很多父母给孩子写 Essey, 帮孩子准备面试,帮孩子求推荐信,给孩子选学校,替孩子选专业,我就觉得,我操心的还真的不够!)
散养不是放养,散养有规矩,有自由,有限制,有宽松。
现在,我和孩子的距离是3000英里,4827公里,9654里, 4,827,000 米,她每天会打电话回来问候、汇报和沟通,so far so good.
进入 Teenager 应该是一个对孩子教育方式的一个分界线。好像中国古代也有这么个年龄坎儿,到了一定年龄,就成人了,就应该担起一个成年人的责任了。
《版权教育所有,翻印培养不究》
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