我的中学班主任--徐老师

我算是运气不好，碰上这位中学班主任徐老师。我只和她相处了一年就上体校去了。然而，班里近70名同学与她在一起整整5年，有些同学被徐老师深深地伤害了。直到2000年以后徐老师病危时，班里多数同学才选择原谅她。

徐老师毕业于大连的一所大学，学的是生物。学生时期被打成右派，后来被摘了帽子称作“摘帽右派”，那段经历对她的性格产生了多大影响不得而知。

徐老师有30%的时间热情似火，在班里组织生物小组，油画小组（不是她的本职工作），督导有潜力的同学努力学习。但是70%时间里脸色阴沉，情绪不稳，喜怒无常。挖苦，训斥同学们是家常便饭。

徐老师还有其它怪癖。她见不得女同学打扮的漂漂亮亮，比如，裤子衣服腰身紧了一点，略有一点高跟的皮鞋，稍稍卷烫的头发等等都会招来她的猛烈批评。“像个女流氓！”是徐老师用过最多的词汇。林林总总不一而足。

奇怪的是徐老师对热爱体育，活泼上进的男同学们也不喜欢，毫无理由地阻挠同学们参加体育活动和校运动队的训练比赛。为了不让她用“影响学习”为由干涉我参加校队活动。我总是公公正正地提前交作业，还是打动不了徐老师。

一年以后我选择了离开。体校的3年时间，我的学业是彻底的荒废了。后来我人生中的学术方面一直缺乏根基，走得跌跌撞撞，底气不足。我是那个班里最幸运的人，唯一考上77级大学的。

我们班当时是那所中学的4个高中班里，恢复高考后考上大学人数最少的一个班。仅此一点，同学们的怨气就再也不能平息了。

其实，徐老师在班里还是有所顾忌的，她在家里更是霸道。我父母和徐老师的丈夫几十年前在东北鞍山就认识，一个儒雅宽厚的湖南籍工程师。徐老师在家里把丈夫修理的服服帖帖，她这些表现在当地都是家喻户晓的事情。徐老师夫妇有一个和我二哥同岁的儿子，在家里坐也不是，站也不是，饱受徐老师修理。人长得像一株豆芽菜，精神上萎靡一点也不阳光。

学校里曾经组织学工劳动，同学们步行往返于工厂和学校。徐老师的儿子体弱，回程时走不动了。他央求着搭乘上了一架马车，上车后由于疲劳，很快就睡着了。儿子在睡梦中从马车上摔下来，造成锁骨粉碎性骨折。

徐老师路上遇到一位同学的母亲，她向这位女士抱怨儿子的不幸遭遇。同学的母亲正没好气，说道：我儿子从飞机上掉下来都没事！


 

[coach1960]

I was deeply moved by your story. We wouldn't be the same person today without those teachers who loved us with whole-hearts in the those days!

Thanks for sharing your early life experience with me.

[alsoRun]

To have a good teacher in elementary or middle school is indeed very important. Looking back, I was lucky to have two middle school teachers who believed in me in the darkest years of the Cultural Revolution in spite of my father's "history problem". My first year in the middle school, my whole class took a long (15 KM) trip to a 革命烈士陵 and some students were scheduled to be sworn in as a young pioneering member. I did not know if I would be one of them. But I was, thanks to these two teachers.

When my (female) math teacher left my school to marry an army soldier in 1973, I had tears in my eyes. In 1974, my father was reassigned work and I left to live with him in another county. My Chinese teacher asked me to go to his dorm, where he presented me with a red notebook. Yes, I could still remember the sad expression in his face till this day.

I guess that I am a lucky man. I love you, my teachers.