当你充满愤怒地对我发火时,我有那么一瞬间,以为是我哪里出现了问题。但幸运的是,在这种自我怀疑变成自我仇恨之前,我意识到你愤怒是因为你自己搞砸了这一切。
就在那时,我知道,我很好。
I was alright but not with you.
——K. C. Nagashree
我曾经无数次的问自己:为什么是我?是我看起来愚蠢?还是因为我看起来懦弱?是因为我说的英语口音太重?还是因为我的人缘不好,让大家讨厌?
我相信这也是很多“被霸凌“者苦苦思索过的东西。
随着脑子的逐渐清醒,注意力回归,我也开始着手“干点正事”,我开始整理自己的思路。
我把WBI (Workplace Bully Institute)的历年调研报告完整的打印出来,认真阅读,仔细回顾自己的经历。把这些都写下来,一方面是我“自我救赎”的一部分, 另一方面也希望对那些正经受Gaslighting, 职场霸凌的人,特别是“模范少数族裔的华人”一些启发: 你绝对不是孤独的,遭受职场霸凌绝对不是你的错!你值得拥有健康的职业前途跟幸福的家庭生活! 你会拥有无限可能美丽的人生!这些无关你的政治主张,无关你的宗教信仰,只是因为我们生而为人,我们拥有做为人的独立尊严。
以下是WBI研究报告的摘抄引用:
首先,你一定要知道并记住的事:
- 你并不孤单 - 据WBI组织2021年对美国职场的调查数据显示:44.2%的人经历过“被霸凌”,23.9%的人做为“目击者”知道霸凌事件。23.1%的人相信有但是不甚了解。5.9%的人承认自己曾经霸凌过他人。有48.6million的美国职场人曾“被霸凌”。如果加上“目击者”,有79.4million的美国职场人员经历过“职场霸凌”。
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(2)遭遇职场霸凌不是你的问题---你一定可以渡过这个难关。
同时,请在适当的时候做出选择,最大限度地减少对健康的损害。
让“清醒的自我意识”逐渐回归:
我的世界观是在几十年的诚实和有爱的成长过程中磨练出来的,与霸凌者的世界观形成了鲜明的对比。他们会把每一天都视为主宰他人的机会。他们总是先行进攻,以防止受到袭击。一个正直富有同情心的人很可能无法想象有人会如此残忍,尤其是对他们所倚赖的下属。“
为什么会出现霸凌这种状况?
主要目的是为了“剥削”!占主导地位的施暴者试图让目标/受害者产生一种无价值感,施暴者会通过让调查人员相信真相无法查明、或抹黑被霸凌者,策略是部署其他人对被霸凌者施暴。他们往往选择在别人面前表现得戏剧化,试图通过向目标和所有目击者灌输恐惧来控制情绪气氛。他们这样做的目的是出于自己的懒惰,无能,缺乏技术实力,在拿走别人的Credit的同时把自己的错误推卸出去。
被霸凌者的特征
反工作霸凌研究所WBI 进行了连续数年的在线调查,询问被欺凌目标为何成为被攻击目标,得出了以下按顺序排列的特征列表:
- 独立的
拒绝屈服。
欺凌有点像奴隶制。霸凌者觉得自己有权支配他人。被霸凌者的大部分工作生活都被霸凌者控制。当奴隶挑战主人时,报复是迅速而严厉的。坚持自己尊严的被霸凌者被贴上“傲慢”、“挑衅”或“威胁”的标签。霸凌者觉得像这样的人“应该”被虐待才能留在他们的地方。
- 更多技术技能
被霸凌者比欺凌者更了解工作的细节。
被霸凌者通常是员工中的资深人士、“求助”专家,人们都依赖他们提供答案、解决方案和专业知识。这就是他们成为被霸凌者的原因。不是因为他们的弱点,而是因为他们的力量。
欺负人的小霸王更喜欢欺负那些相比之下让自己显得无能的人。大部分欺凌行为是由欺凌者的嫉妒和嫉妒造成的。
- 很受欢迎
深受同事、客户、客户、其他机构联系人的喜爱。以善良和慷慨而闻名。
- 道德和诚实
被霸凌者通常是正派的人。
他们错误地认为每个人都有道德取向。但显然霸凌者热衷剥削和操纵。这种现实在被霸凌者的世界观中是难以想象的。除非在生活中曾遭受过虐待,否则被霸凌者会一直否认,直到事情恶化,很晚才意识到欺凌行为。传统中的吹哨人也非常有道德和诚实。如果被霸凌者举报了这些事件,那么他/她就成为了吹哨人,因为他们揭露了雇主肮脏的小秘密。
- 忽略政治游戏
这是崇高的。然而,工作场所在很大程度上反映了类似真人秀节目的残酷关系,是关键人物政治阴谋的污水坑。霸凌者会破坏他人的生活和生计。被霸凌者以为自己只是来工作,当他们一转身,就在那时,陷入了爪子之中。
请注意,根据人力资源部的标准,上述 5 个特征定义了理想的被雇佣者。然而,一个“自我启动”、“学习曲线短”、“掌握快”、拥有“情商”、“诚实且有道德”的人,这类最有可能成为一名出色的“团队合作者”的人,也最可能成为工作场所中被霸凌的目标。
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