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• Who: Amy, classmates, teacher, special speaker
• Location: Auditorium
• Environment: The room is quiet with only the speaker talking.
• Worry Level: 2,3
• Purpose: Make sure Amy is comfortable at the assembly.
• What is Happening: The speaker is giving a presentation about deforestation. Occasionally, he may engage the crowd by asking a question or two. Amy knows the answer of his question but does not want to talk in front of everyone.

Strategy and Scene

• Prepare Amy and give Amy a brief introduction and inform her on: What the assembly is about, How many people will be there
• Whisper Buddy： Whisper buddy can answer for Amy if the speaker calls on her. Whisper buddy should be sitting next to Amy at the assembly so she is more comfortable.

It was assembly day at school for the first graders. All the kids were quietly seated in the auditorium, watching the speakers talk about deforestation. They sat next to each other in lines, very happy and relaxed. Amy was seated next to her whisper buddy, Sofia, contently watching the stage. “Now, you may be wondering why deforestation is such a big deal,” said the speaker. “Who knows what the problem is with cutting too many trees?” Amy perked up, as she knew the answer. However, seeing the unfamiliar face of the speaker and the immense number of people around her, she did not raise her hand. Speaking in front of so many people was too scary! But she knew what to do. She nudged Sofia and whispered the answer into her ear. Sofia nodded and raised her hand. The speaker spotted her and pointed to her to answer. “Yes, the little girl in the blue, do you want to try to answer?” Sofia declared, “Yes, my smart friend next to me told me the answer. Cutting too many trees is bad because trees provide oxygen and wood, and cutting them down would also destroy the homes of a lot of little animals!” The speaker smiled. “Wow, good job! That is correct! Amy, you are smart!”” He continued on with his speech. Sofia smiled at Amy. “Good work, Amy!” Amy beamed, appreciating her friend’s support. “Sofia, next time I’ll still sit next to you.”

Strategy: A whisper buddy can help the SM kid speak, act, reduce pressure, and introduce her to new friends. Parents and teachers should find a whisper friend for SM kids as soon as possible. The best candidates for whisper buddies are bold and outgoing and have opportunities to play outside school.

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选择性缄默症包括语言恐 Speech Phobia，感知障碍 Sensory Disorder, 社交恐惧 Social Anxiety 。 关键词： 孩子为什么不说话，孩子在外面不说话，孩子不敢说话，和陌生人不说话，社交恐惧，孩子在幼儿园和学校不说话，害羞，敏感，胆子小，懦弱，怕生，内向，没自信，固执，不敢吃饭，不敢去厕所，不敢和小朋友玩，，在家讲话，出门不讲话。只和爸爸妈妈说话， 不敢参加集体活动。