Whenever a guy says he likes or fantasizes other women, boobs or booties or whatever, some gals immediately jump into a closure that this guy is bad, SO bad that he wants an open relationship.

Really? Are you listening to yourself? Aren’t you gals so anxiously uncontrollably excited to look at good-looking guys and talk about sex topics? Look at the responses to relationships and sex topics. I don’t have to say more hehehe.

Please don’t fool yourself or others by saying you are only interested in LOVE. The love between men and women is initiated by sexual attraction and maintained by sexual desirability. Plutonic love never works for couples with normal human functions and needs.

So can you say you are all here looking for open relationship? Or are you just here talking about it and thinking about it and even fantasizing about it? Which one is it?

Thinking and talking doesn’t mean ACTION. In fact, if a guy says he got no interest in other sexy boobs or booties, he is either gay or a liar! If he’s telling the truth, you better believe his own sex life is about to be like dead meat J

Thing is how he controls his fantasies, whether he shares and does some with you or he just stops at the thoughts or he has to satisfy his urges without you. He is not stupid to know that he can’t get all the amazing boobs or booties no matter what. There is always a better set out there – bigger or smaller, firmer or younger. I don’t think your own set really even matters if you can straighten him out J  It’s just like you like muscle guys but all your gals’ husbands have Arnold’s muscles? No? Are you going to look for one who does and go for it?

Further, should you dump him if he likes Angelina’s body but you don’t have it? Should he dump you because you like iron muscles and big meat but he doesn’t have them? Think about it and then answer?

YOU should know YOUR guy or believe you know your guy well enough when you’re getting married. Don’t be a control freak without knowing a man’s human nature, making the marriage as boring or suspicious as hell, or be ignorant living in your own little world thinking all the guys are as pure as angels hehehehe

There ain’t no pure angel, remember? If you claim you are one, then really, you should keep your virginity and never get married.

Of course, you and your guy may change for the time being…… that’s another story.

PS: If someone has already decided to have an open relationship, he/she doesn’t need to fantasize other men or women – he/she can actually get more J